H and I have been together for 5 years, married for almost 4 years. A few mnths before we got married, I found a huge porn stash along with nude pictures of past lovers/girlfriends. I confronted him about it and he promised to delete everything and that it wouldn't happen again. (Back story, my first marriage ended partly because of porn addition) well, this has happened 4 times now. When I found another stash a year ago, I told him that if it happened again, I would leave. Three weeks ago I found another stash along wih pictues he pulled of Facebook of MY friends. We talked nd he said he felt like it was an addiction and that he needed to seek help.
Three weeks in and he hadn't contacted anyone or done anything to make a change. Yesterday I found out that he is still looking at fb pics o my friends and then masterbaiting. Our kids and myself stayed with my parents latnight and he is acting like it is nothing, like I am just gonna get ver it and he will get to keep doing what he wants. I feel like this s it, I'm done. But should I keep trying for our kids sake? They are 3 and 1. I need advice!
Three weeks in and he hadn't contacted anyone or done anything to make a change. Yesterday I found out that he is still looking at fb pics o my friends and then masterbaiting. Our kids and myself stayed with my parents latnight and he is acting like it is nothing, like I am just gonna get ver it and he will get to keep doing what he wants. I feel like this s it, I'm done. But should I keep trying for our kids sake? They are 3 and 1. I need advice!
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