I put this here because I believe I need a ladies opinion.
Ive told my wife after 1 year and 4 months marriage, that id like more sex and that id like her to engage in my sexual fetish (well fitting jeans and tight hi cut swimwear)...even encouraging her to feel more sexy and appreciated.
Sex was great before we go married now we mostly only have sex when she feels like it or when she is tipsy and I told her I want to make love when she is sober.
She told me that she is not interested in my fetish :( fine! but she 'teases' me when she sees a lady like that in the street and I pretend im not interested.
She also said that she will allow me to have sex with another woman in order to satisfy myself, which I told her for me, is unheard of in a loving marriage.
I admit, I got desperate once and contacted women on adult marriage sites but 'something' always seemed to stop progress and after a month, I gave up...I called it personal fate.
I decided to delete a big source of my drive and deleted all my fetish material and I kept myself focused on other stuff besides sex and for 2-3 weeks it went well. But I guess psychology got in the way and when i decided to masturbate to feel good, i could feel my fetish and sex drive come roaring back.
My wife wont have sex with me if i take pills to lower my testosterone levels.
any suggestions?
Ive told my wife after 1 year and 4 months marriage, that id like more sex and that id like her to engage in my sexual fetish (well fitting jeans and tight hi cut swimwear)...even encouraging her to feel more sexy and appreciated.
Sex was great before we go married now we mostly only have sex when she feels like it or when she is tipsy and I told her I want to make love when she is sober.
She told me that she is not interested in my fetish :( fine! but she 'teases' me when she sees a lady like that in the street and I pretend im not interested.
She also said that she will allow me to have sex with another woman in order to satisfy myself, which I told her for me, is unheard of in a loving marriage.
I admit, I got desperate once and contacted women on adult marriage sites but 'something' always seemed to stop progress and after a month, I gave up...I called it personal fate.
I decided to delete a big source of my drive and deleted all my fetish material and I kept myself focused on other stuff besides sex and for 2-3 weeks it went well. But I guess psychology got in the way and when i decided to masturbate to feel good, i could feel my fetish and sex drive come roaring back.
My wife wont have sex with me if i take pills to lower my testosterone levels.
any suggestions?
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