Hi, i've been coming to this forum regularly trying to find answers, points of view and people with similar scenarios. Now i have the courage to post this new thread of mine... I' ll appreciate your advice i feel a little lost.
I've been almost 2 years with my girlfriend and want to take things more serious we live together and we have discuss our future but there's one thing that's been bothering me.
I'm thinking about taking the next step but i have to be sure that this is the right decision or the right time.
She had slept with some of her friends and i know she doesnt talk to them on a reglar basis. But she lied to me about one.
When i asked her about this friend she told me that they were really good friends and have been for a long time and that nothing happened , but last month i knew the truth, they had some sort of a relationship and didnt work out and decidied that they work better as friends.
Now i know the truth.
He doesnt live in the same state but they talk from time to time and it makes me feel weird. ( i know the guy)
I feel that i dont have the right to ask her to stop talking to him but at the same time i want to.
Is it possible? Can you be friends with someone that you shared a sexual past?
Am i wrong?
I've been almost 2 years with my girlfriend and want to take things more serious we live together and we have discuss our future but there's one thing that's been bothering me.
I'm thinking about taking the next step but i have to be sure that this is the right decision or the right time.
She had slept with some of her friends and i know she doesnt talk to them on a reglar basis. But she lied to me about one.
When i asked her about this friend she told me that they were really good friends and have been for a long time and that nothing happened , but last month i knew the truth, they had some sort of a relationship and didnt work out and decidied that they work better as friends.
Now i know the truth.
He doesnt live in the same state but they talk from time to time and it makes me feel weird. ( i know the guy)
I feel that i dont have the right to ask her to stop talking to him but at the same time i want to.
Is it possible? Can you be friends with someone that you shared a sexual past?
Am i wrong?
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