Is it Unrealistic to ask a guy to not watch Porn?

I've attained a boyfriend recently, and at the beginning of the relationship I told him there are 2 things I will not accept: Smoking and porn. That's just how I feel. He said ok. Well one night while I was asleep he sent me a text that said "I'm gonna need some nudes asap." I didn't get it until the next morning though. I just looked through his history today and found that he watched porn that night. Didn't tell me about it, nothing.

While the fact that he hid it from me and did it despite agreeing to not doing it bothers me tremendously, (my ex husband all over again-sigh), it really bothers me that he wasn't into sex at all when I came over the next night. It was like I already knew that he had watched it because he didn't need me. This pisses me off because he has a lower drive than I do, and I'm always dying for him to get super horny like me. And of course, when he finally does, he watches porn since I'm not available, and then he's not that horny when I do come over the next day. Not to mention we tried to do it this morning but he lost his erection.

I just feel really betrayed, mostly by the fact that it feels like he gets more horny with porn than me. Should I be upset with him? If so, what should I say?

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