Relationship Post Thingy HELP ME!

So I'm 19 and never had a girlfriend, and I'm a virgin (male) My problem (s) are this; I'm effeminate - like I just am, I'm not a macho guy, and I think that could be because I was raised mainly by my mum, my dad doesn't like me because I chose university, and not a ''proper job'' like a plumber :L But then I'm questioning whether I'm gay or not too. I get sexually excited by guys in the sense that when I watch porn, I find males/gay porn more fun. But then, if I watch straight porn, I also enjoy that (though not as much) - so sometimes I wonder whether I am interested in sex/nudity not gender. (is this making sense) Although I like looking at naked males and get a sexual thrill, I would never want to have sex with a man, have a relationship with one etc... I can pull girls in nightclubs, in the sense I can kiss them but I never want to go further - I've been single all my life and a) don't know to do the whole sex thing b) I like being single and c) I don't know my sexual orientation - when I kiss girls I don't know how I feel - I like it, and it feels good, but don't know if I am sexually attracted by it. But because I'm effeminate, everyone thinks I'm gay, which hurts my feelings (not criticising gays, it's just demoralizing when someone questions your sexuality) ANY ADVICE/OPINIONS! :)

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