I am the stbxw of a serial cheater. Never wanted to R and happy to be moving on. Ran into an old bf who loves his wife very much but she is disconnecting at the moment. I didn't ask too many questions because he looked so hurt. Wished him well and went on my way. Thought about him the following week and e-mailed him a harmless joke. He replied with a "good-one". Next week I emailed him about a guy who died from high-school. Well by the time I was reay to send the third e-mail, it hit me...I AM THAT PERSON WE HATE. I did not send he e-mail and won't and I honestly have no feelings for this old bf but I was opening a door that in my mind was innocent. So it does happen very very easily. I really meant nothing but to help this poor guy who has had his gut kicked. If I had not read things here on TAM, I might have sent that e-mail and been THAT person even though it happened to me and made me miserable. Anyway, I'm glad I caught myself and will never contact his person again. | |||
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So this is what I did:
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