| Okay so I will try to make this as concise as possible, but there is a lot going on here. Firstly, this girl got hired where I work about a month ago, and since I first saw her I thought she was perfect. Gorgeous, nice, quiet, but has a great sense of humor and seems very intelligent. I friend requested her on Facebook and she accepted, so I was able to discretely creep and saw that she was single. At the end of last week, right before she left for the night (I had an hour or two yet, I work in a kitchen and she is a waitress), I finally got the balls to ask her out. Keep in mind, I have always been super shy around girls, and haven't asked anyone out since the 7th grade (I would now be a senior in college had I gone back to school). Her response was an apology and "I have a boyfriend". She seemed very sincere about the apology. Now, being the super shy, smitten, and confused guy I am, I accepted it and just said said goodnight and walked away. Then I started thinking about how her Facebook says "single", and has no photo evidence of a boyfriend. I do not know if I believe her. She definitely doesn't seem to be the kind of person to lie like that, but I do not know girls very well so can not say for sure. I just do not know what to think. I really, really like this girl, more than I have ever liked someone before, and though I have been hurt in the past, it has never fe lt like this. I would like to say that all I want is closure, but truth be told, all I want is to be with this girl. The problem here, though, is that we work together. I don't know what to do or say to her about this, if anything, without making it super awkward at work, possibly to the point of her quitting, or even worse, filing harassment charges against me or something. I know my general options here are to say/do something or wait it out, and I just have no prior experiences to draw upon, or any idea what to do. As a side note, I am a little overweight, and not exactly super handsome, but perhaps a little over/under average, respectively. However, I think I have a great personality and am great at making people comfortable and laugh. Overall, a good guy, and it is easy for people to see it. Sorry for the super long read, but this has been weighing on my mind for a few days and no matter how I try to get over it, it just won't get out of my head. I worked with her again tonight and it seemed all fine, we conversed/joked as usual, but my stomach was roiling the whole time. Any assistance would be much, much appreciated. | |||
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