| I didn't really know where else to get advice. I was with a guy during school for 3 years. We were together from when we were about 15 to just before uni started at 18. Then we had to break up because I moved quite far away for uni and I decided it just wouldn't work. I found a new boyfriend a few months later. My ex was really unhappy with it. I've tried to remain friends with him but he doesn't really want to speak to me. I was talking to him at a party but he was drunk and told me he couldn't be friends with me anymore because the idea I had a new boyfriend hurt him so much (he never really wanted us to break up). We tried to make amends the next day. I told him I couldn't really maintain friendship with someone who wasn't happy for me and the new boyfriend and he told me he was happy for us and was just drunk but it wasn't very believable. He told me also that he was going to make a new start for the new academic year (we were going into second year of uni). A couple of months went by and we didn't really speak though I noticed some new activity with a new girl on his facebook account. I didn't really think much of it because he'd dated a few girls since we broke up. However the academic year passed and this summer it seemed to become really intense. They went on holiday together with some of his friends for 6 weeks and I went to his house because I'm friends with his flatmate from our school years and they were talking about how great their relationship was. I'm now feeling a bit envious of her because she's seeing his school friends who I haven't seen since we broke up. We also never went on such a lengthy holiday together (they were away for 6 weeks) and my facebook is being flooded with pictures of them together and his friends and I'm finding it difficult to deal with. I feel like he's replacing me with her and over-compensating. What do I do about it? Should I talk to him again? | |||
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