Update-I haven't been here in a long while

For those of you that remember me here is an update on my situation. I should be divorced by the end of September!!!!! This is the second attempt at divorce because the first case was dismissed by the Judge due to my STBXH wouldn't show up for court dates. I got a great job and moved 2 1/2 hours away from my home. It's very different but I am loving it! I finally got past the wanting to 'prove' all his wrong doing. I just don't care anymore. I did send him an email last week giving him a chance to settle out of court. I was stern and in his face! I called him a liar, adulterer and a tax evader, which are all true! He replied with his usual BS and I laughed. Didn't respond. I am so excited about changing my name as I don't ever want to see his last name behind my first name ever again!!! It's been a long hard road but I have finally come to a place I can choose an entirely new road for myself. I'm happy but I know I have serious trust issues going forward. I hate that but I know that only time will begin to change that problem.

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