My bf acted a lot differently towards his ex than he does to me.

unluckily, I knew my boyfriend and his ex when they were together... didn't have any feelings for him then, but they were a lovely couple and I know he really loved her, he was devastated when they broke up. I know she was his first love and whatnot but I feel like I'm just nowhere near as important to him now as she was then. He's a busy guy but I'm lucky to see him twice a week, whereas they'd see each other daily. There's tons of pics of them on facebook and I've seen a few old messages that were so soppy... am I pathetic for being a bit bothered that he never says anything like that to me? :( don't get me wrong he is a lovely, good boyfriend but I can't help feeling like I'm not as good as her, or like I don't mean as much. as well as that it bothers me that I always have to be the one arranging when we'll see each other. it just seems like he's not bothered about seeing me. he doesn't seem bothered that we can't see each other much. am I paranoid in thinking this? is it just natural to be less intense in later relationships and maybe he's just matured? or is there probably actually a problem?

Put the internet to work for you. via Personal Recipe 2629979