Help! Infidelity and separation after honeymoon!!

I'm lost and confused. Me and my wife separated after just 7 months of marriage. What started as a 1-year passionate online romance that soon led to marriage has now become a living nightmare. When our relationship began, it was intense. My wife always called and texted me and told me the sweetest words I ever heard from a woman. She was very caring and fell in love with me online 'at first sight'. I spent the best 2 months together with her during our honeymoon stage (though we didn't travel for a honeymoon). The nightmare began after I had to travel away for business and missed her birthday (and wasn't able to get her the gift she wanted). By the time forty days of my trip passed, she started switching off her phone every evening, and changed her attitude towards me. When I asked her what's going, she plainly told me she has a 'boyfriend' who is taking care of her. That she doesn't love him but is just slept with him for her gain. I was very upset and told her some bitter words that I can't be in a marriage with such a woman. That she has to stop. Now she says she's fallen out of love with me and that she has another boyfriend who is caring, who doesn't make her cry or tell her she is bad like me, and that she wants a divorce. "She needs someone to make her smile". She also mentioned that the boyfriend who helped her materially was just a lie she told me. I'm confused, heartbroken and depressed. I don't know what to do. I love her, but feel she is abusing me emotionally. We've been separated for four months now, and in no contact for the past few weeks (I initiated the no contact as she was unrepentant).

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