| I'd like to pose a scenario for comment by the female members of the community, i'm not interested in 'good advice' the things you should do and feel. I'd just like an honest comment on the senario, which pokes at the general fundamental difference between men and women. Here goes. My wife had an affair with someone we both knew which went on for over a year. I found out about it and it supposedly stopped. I love my wife and always have and I didn't think she was the type of person to have an affair. I never felt unloved all the time she was having the affair and I don't now. The massive difference is before I assumed I was on her mind as she was on mine. Now I know something different to be true and she doesn't feel like she's mine anymore, its been nearly two years and I thought the anguish would ease but it hasn't. I still spend all my free mental time running over the bones of it, and frankly I think i've come to a decision to throw the towel in for my own mental healths sake. The question: after being married for an amount of time and then engaging in a full blown affair for months, how can a woman possibly feel the same about the man they married without that OM lurking in the background. Joe.. | |||
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