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Family problem need urgent help

Before anyone wonders I am not a troll and I need serious help and advice. I am 17 years old and for years have had an extremely horrible relationship with my parents as we never see eye to eye on anything. They are so backward minded and we are Muslims but they are more cultural than religious as they truly do go against the teaching of Islam.

My dad beats me up and yells and swears at me constantly. He's stopped physically abusing me but now mentally abuses me calling me a good for nothing loser etc... everyday. This has severely impacted my mental health as now I am showing symptoms of General anxiety disorder and I believe I am suffering from mild depression. This has lead me to getting bad in my AS grades and the situation at home has escalated and has worsened. My mum is just as bad; she's been telling me things like I am a failure and disgrace to the whole family and my parent's bullying has reached new levels. My dad told me at the age of 18 he will kick me out as he no longer has no legal obligation over me. I am at a loss as my parents are not allowing me to get a job so that I can support myself.

I hardly communicate with my family and spend my time in my bedroom. My parents stupidly have blamed it on my phone and texting etc... Which is why I did **** but the reality is they have left me in a state where I have lost all determination and motivation to do well. I've decided that education is the only escape from this mad house and have decided to give college another go as I am a bright person but unfortunately due to my suspecting depression and the stressing environment I live in it didn't work out. Naturally, my parents are opposed to this and have been harassing me about it ever since.

I am well and truly at a loss and really want to move out but with my age and no money I don't know what to do. They treat my other siblings fine but ever since I was small I have been subjected to their crap and I have honestly had enough. The last straw was my dad telling me he is going to boot me out the house. I want to go before that happens. Please help I know it's long sorry. :(

(I'm African if it helps in anyway).

P.S I have no relatives I can stay with at all.




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