Hello everyone, I'm writing because I am concerned my marriage ,which is scheduled at the end of this year, would be a complete mistake!! To make a long story short, my fiance and I met two years ago, we moved in with each other after 3 months of dating. Red flags were constantly going off then, ie- g/f crying all the time over senseless bs; emotional manipulation if you will, temper tantrums, and threats. We managed to suffer through another year or so of this relationship and now I'm engaged own a house, house is all under my name, and she's living with me. Things have gradually gone downhill. We do not enjoy each others company, for the last month or two she gets home from work makes a mess in the kitchen then proceeds to lay down and watch tv until she falls asleep. All this would be fine if I got into the relationship knowing this, but she was somewhat clean, liked to work out and generally had a good attitude when we started dating. Both of us are new to the city we live in and have hardly and family or friends to turn to, which is why I think we have stayed together for as long as we have. I know I'm not the perfect fiance, but feel that I have tried to previde us with a nice house, and comfortable life, which she constantly throws in my face btw by saying she doesn't even want to live here and that I don't understand how much of a comittment she has made by putting her life dreams of traveling and working all around the world, in living in a city and house she like. I have called her lazy recently, but I'm completely fed up with her total disregard in trying to keep the house clean. It's almost like a f U to my face. Any advice would be appreciated!! | |||
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Thinking of Caling off wedding
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