| Hi, I'm new to the forum and looking for help regarding tattoos. I feel kinda stupid because my problems seem insignificant compared to what I've been reading, but I have no where else to turn to and need help and insight. I'm recently married, about 8 months, after having dated my wife for a year. It seems short but we have such a great relationship, that we aren't worried about it. I don't want to go into details, but there was an unfortunate event in her life that brought us together. Although it was sad for her she says that she's glad it happened so it brought us together. We never thought much of fate before we met each other. While we were dating, she mentioned she wanted to get a tattoo to commemorate that time in her life, Something small on her back. Tattoos make me super uncomfortable and every time i think about it, I feel uneasy, almost nauseous. When I told her how I felt, she didn't understand, but rather let the topic go away. We've since moved near my family (after we got married) and my sister has a tattoo and wants to get another one. My wife wants to get this tattoo with her. It makes me super uncomfortable and I don't know how to deal with this. Here are my concerns, can anyone help me? 1) She has authority issues and I feel that because I am opposed to this, she's treating me like an "authority figure." 2) While I understand that it is her body, i don't feel like my concerns about it have any input. I feel that this affects me too and its not just about her. 3) I have never known someone who only gets one tattoo and no more. I don't even like the idea of one tattoo, but I really don't think I could stand anymore. She's so pretty and it would be so distracting! So far the only "help" i've gotten is to be called "judgmental" and to go get a tattoo myself. I'm not sure what i'm looking for, but I could really use some help! Thanks nyjunkey | |||
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