No D word should be used during reconciliation?

My wife had a bit of a go at me today, wasn't a fight, not really. Anyways we've been reconciling but I was feeling threatened by the looming possibility of divorce so I wanted to find out from her where do we stand if we start heading there and if we can come to agreement with possible financial disputes (aka, I won't split my business, period) She went off, saying that we shouldn't be discussing this and that the only thing we should focus on is making our marriage work. I told her that we have to be prepared for any decision, and the more on the same page we are the less court disputes we may have to go through, and nonetheless; it's best we both make informed decisions whether to stay or leave rather then last minute "OMFG moments". But she refuses to talk about it, assured me that she's not giving up on us as long as I don't, that it hurts to think about, etc etc. I was rather encouraged by her determination to make things work between us so I dropped it. But... is this a bad move? I don't know, I just hope she's not avoiding this topic because she's planning some crazy legal manuever or something while I have my guard down... guess I'm a bit paranoid.

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