My wife of 17 yrs recently returned from a business trip. Nothing seemed out of the ordinary until about 2 weeks later when I was on my 15yr old sons laptop to check the search history. It was apparent that my wife used the laptop the day after she returned. She clearly indicated that she met a man on the trip and that she was infatuated with him. She gave this man her telephone # and was missing him. She made searches about how to tell if a man is into you or only into you for sex. She researched younger men/ older women relationships. She missed her military man and explored the benefits of dating a military man. The searches really lead to nothing when explored. However, I see red flags with the comments alone. I confronted her and she dismissed the searches as some sort of fantasy that she had. Since then my anxiety is up and she has become somewhat distant and is extremely protective of her cell. I mean 24hrs a day in her hand, even while she sleeps . The mystery man did pop up on her Linkedin account soon afterwards and he lives across the country. She indicated nothing happened on the trip and was quite annoyed with me for asking. She has never given any indication previously that would lead me to suspect anything was going on. She indicated that if she wanted to cheat that she could easily do so here at home and not on a trip. Further stated after the 3rd time that if I did not drop the subject that something indeed would happen. I don't believe anything happened but believe everything points to something was underway. Im either blind, paranoid or correct. Any thoughts?
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