I am married for 11 years and have 2 sons. My eldest refuses to sleep in his own room. He says he is scared at night and comes to our room.
Initially i used to wait till he falls asleep and put him back to his bed since my husband was not bothered to do so and just leave him in our bed all night.
I am a light sleeper and the sleep interuption was now affecting my daily activities. So I told my husband how this was affecting me. I cant say much happened to solve the problem.
So I decided that maybe if I slept in another room it would be a wake up call for him to act as we virtually have no privacy at all. But i have been sleeping in another bedroom for a month now and my son sleeps on the same bed with his Dad. There is no effort being made to get him to sleep in his own room.
So as you can probably workout we are not having sex and it is frustrating me. But maybe what frustrates me more is that he is not bothered by it as he would make the effort to make sure we have our privacy. By the way we only have sex at night in the dark so its a big deal nothing happens in the daytime.
I am slowly becoming resentful because of this.. I was planning to see a counsellor on my own initially but any advice is very much appreciated.
By the way my son is almost 8 so he really shouldbe sleeping in his own bed!
Initially i used to wait till he falls asleep and put him back to his bed since my husband was not bothered to do so and just leave him in our bed all night.
I am a light sleeper and the sleep interuption was now affecting my daily activities. So I told my husband how this was affecting me. I cant say much happened to solve the problem.
So I decided that maybe if I slept in another room it would be a wake up call for him to act as we virtually have no privacy at all. But i have been sleeping in another bedroom for a month now and my son sleeps on the same bed with his Dad. There is no effort being made to get him to sleep in his own room.
So as you can probably workout we are not having sex and it is frustrating me. But maybe what frustrates me more is that he is not bothered by it as he would make the effort to make sure we have our privacy. By the way we only have sex at night in the dark so its a big deal nothing happens in the daytime.
I am slowly becoming resentful because of this.. I was planning to see a counsellor on my own initially but any advice is very much appreciated.
By the way my son is almost 8 so he really shouldbe sleeping in his own bed!
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