so about a month ago i discovered tinychat (yeah i know, slow to join the bandwagon there) and i joined a particular room/group (not going to say its name obviously, but it's cool).
anyway, for the first week i lurked and just chatted in the box with other members (there are at least 100-140 members so it's a pretty big group). i liked it there, it provided a nice form of procrastination.
i then cammed up about two weeks ago (the people on cam were lovely), and immediately, this one really cute guy who i've had my eyes set on for ages noticed me, pmed me, and asked me for my kik. i gave it to him, and we started chatting on that.
i got a bit busy, so didnt go on tc that much, but i began noticing just how...needy this guy was. Lets call him A (22 years old). So A's like one of the big leaders of the group; whenever he cams up it always seems to get busy and exciting in the room. he's incredibly good-looking, so he always mentions how he used to be a "man-slut", and always vigorously describes his past sexual experiences, much to the delight of the other cammers. i'm not frigid, so i don't mind, but he acts SO DIFFERENT when chatting to me. He's so needy when he texts me, and he started saying things like "you're beautiful, you're so intelligent, can you send me a body pic (with clothes?)". I obviously said no, and told him to piss off, and he said sorry, and all was good again. He was still completely different to his online persona on tc (in that via text he was a lot more serious and sincere whereas on tc he just spoke about bitches and vaginas and stuff).
ANYWAY: about three days ago i decided i really wanted to get iOS 7 on my iPhone 4, but I didnt have enough storage, so I started deleting all of my apps, including kik. I told A this, and he was absolutely distraught. He kept saying stuff like "How are we gonna keep in contact? You're so beautiful, I'm in awe of your beauty, I cant lose you".
So I did something stupid, and i gave him my number.
And now he won't stop texting me, calling me, FaceTiming me, telling me he loves me. At first I was really overwhelmed by his sensitive demeanor, since I noticed that every single time I popped up on tc when he was cammed up, he'd always go quiet and ignore me, and then send me a text telling me how gorgeous I look. It just completely confuses me, how loving and sensitive and needy he sounds via text, but how much of a lad he appears on cam (in addition to ignoring me!).
What can I do? I still quite like the tc group I'm in; the people on there are awesome and hilarious and stuff, but I just feel uncomfortable whenever I'm on there and he's on there too, since he always texts me saying how much he loves me and wants to FaceTime me and "see" me (i.e. my figure).
HELP.
EDIT: Oh, theres also a few things i've heard A reveal on tc when he thought i wasnt there (i wasnt cammed up). for one thing: he has two daughters, he absolutely HATES his "baby momma", and that he enjoys torturing people e.g. electrocution, slow drowning etc. he also thinks being completely wasted makes him more normal.
anyway, for the first week i lurked and just chatted in the box with other members (there are at least 100-140 members so it's a pretty big group). i liked it there, it provided a nice form of procrastination.
i then cammed up about two weeks ago (the people on cam were lovely), and immediately, this one really cute guy who i've had my eyes set on for ages noticed me, pmed me, and asked me for my kik. i gave it to him, and we started chatting on that.
i got a bit busy, so didnt go on tc that much, but i began noticing just how...needy this guy was. Lets call him A (22 years old). So A's like one of the big leaders of the group; whenever he cams up it always seems to get busy and exciting in the room. he's incredibly good-looking, so he always mentions how he used to be a "man-slut", and always vigorously describes his past sexual experiences, much to the delight of the other cammers. i'm not frigid, so i don't mind, but he acts SO DIFFERENT when chatting to me. He's so needy when he texts me, and he started saying things like "you're beautiful, you're so intelligent, can you send me a body pic (with clothes?)". I obviously said no, and told him to piss off, and he said sorry, and all was good again. He was still completely different to his online persona on tc (in that via text he was a lot more serious and sincere whereas on tc he just spoke about bitches and vaginas and stuff).
ANYWAY: about three days ago i decided i really wanted to get iOS 7 on my iPhone 4, but I didnt have enough storage, so I started deleting all of my apps, including kik. I told A this, and he was absolutely distraught. He kept saying stuff like "How are we gonna keep in contact? You're so beautiful, I'm in awe of your beauty, I cant lose you".
So I did something stupid, and i gave him my number.
And now he won't stop texting me, calling me, FaceTiming me, telling me he loves me. At first I was really overwhelmed by his sensitive demeanor, since I noticed that every single time I popped up on tc when he was cammed up, he'd always go quiet and ignore me, and then send me a text telling me how gorgeous I look. It just completely confuses me, how loving and sensitive and needy he sounds via text, but how much of a lad he appears on cam (in addition to ignoring me!).
What can I do? I still quite like the tc group I'm in; the people on there are awesome and hilarious and stuff, but I just feel uncomfortable whenever I'm on there and he's on there too, since he always texts me saying how much he loves me and wants to FaceTime me and "see" me (i.e. my figure).
HELP.
EDIT: Oh, theres also a few things i've heard A reveal on tc when he thought i wasnt there (i wasnt cammed up). for one thing: he has two daughters, he absolutely HATES his "baby momma", and that he enjoys torturing people e.g. electrocution, slow drowning etc. he also thinks being completely wasted makes him more normal.
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