I have currently been married for 7 1/2 years and my wife seems always depressed. She is never positive about much of anything. She is always sleeping during the days she is home. We have tried to have children, but have been unsuccessful. She has had 3 miscarriages, which I know if very hard on her. We have been trying IVF, but so far it has been unsuccessful and its very expensive. She has always had some depression even when we were first married, but has had medications to help. Right now she hates where we live, her job, my job, and wants to move. I have a good job that I have worked very hard to get to in my position and make very good money. Also, where we live os close to family and friends. I don't want to loose my wife, but am very frustrated with our situation. I'm afraid that our marriage is going to tank because I'm having a hard time dealing with her depression. She is on medication, but I don't see it helping. I'm at lost of what to do. I j ust know that when she is happy I'm happy. When she is miserable I'm miserable. Lately its been mostly misery. We have just gotten back from a vacate which, I thought may have helped us get back on track, but about 5 days back she has gone back to the same way. At a loss of what to do. Any advise would be greatly appreciated. Please note that I understand some of her depression. She has been through a-lot in her life health wise. I just don't know how to help.
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