So back in june I got out of a very long term relationship. I was completely heartbroken and a mess but I moved out to China in August and things were good. In october I met someone new. Initially I just was using it as a distraction with the intention of keeping things casual, but over the past few months we've been seeing each other regularly and feelings have developed. He's really sweet and I like him a lot, I don't love him but there's definitely some feelings there.
But the problem is that I am meant to be moving back to England in June. I have considered staying here for another year but I'm really unsure right now. On top of that he's not from England or even the EU so I don't see there being a future at all for this relationship. I really really like spending time with him and right now this relationship is making me very happy but every time I spend time with him afterwards I get sad because I think about the inevitable break up. I don't know whether to cut my losses and break it off now before I get even more emotionally involved. But then part of me is saying that you never know what might happen in the future and there's no point ending it if it's making me happy. Please help :(
I got over the break up of a 4 year relationship fairly well but it was awful, probably one of the most difficult things I've ever had to do and I'm scared of hurting like that again (although this situation would definitely be different)
But the problem is that I am meant to be moving back to England in June. I have considered staying here for another year but I'm really unsure right now. On top of that he's not from England or even the EU so I don't see there being a future at all for this relationship. I really really like spending time with him and right now this relationship is making me very happy but every time I spend time with him afterwards I get sad because I think about the inevitable break up. I don't know whether to cut my losses and break it off now before I get even more emotionally involved. But then part of me is saying that you never know what might happen in the future and there's no point ending it if it's making me happy. Please help :(
I got over the break up of a 4 year relationship fairly well but it was awful, probably one of the most difficult things I've ever had to do and I'm scared of hurting like that again (although this situation would definitely be different)
Put the internet to work for you.
No comments:
Post a Comment