Hi guys
Ive been with my girl for just over 4 years now, and I wanted to be with her for life but now I am unsure and confused.. She has told me that she wanted to be with me for life as well. She is 32 and I am 30. Im at the stage where I want to marry and have a house and family.
But we have had alot of bumps along the way
Its a pretty long story of issues but ill try to keep it short
The big issue is that after this long I still have not met her parents. Apparently her mum has a mental illness ( depression or something ) and always puts off meeting me. I dont know if its just laziness or what. Because of this mental issue I have been patient, 4 years patient and now I have had enough. Her dad has even spoken to her about it and they still have not bothered inviting me over
This would not bother me as much if my gf was not such a devoted and loyal daughter. She does nearly everything they ask her to. Which is another issue that really bothers me because I cannot come over her place, if her parents ask her to stay for dinner even if I want or arranged to do something with her she will cancel on me or try to see me after!! She does not rebel at all to them at all! Her parents are traditional and so is my gf. I dont think she wants to tell them or give them clues that we sleep with each other before we are engaged. But this leads to more infuriating things for me. She will never sleep over my place after a late night out and even not tell her parents that I am accompanying her on holiday trips. This makes me feel like a teenager and i get so mad at this crap
I also feel she is lazy on seeing me. We have only ever seen each other no more then once a week most times. I ask her to come over during the week for dinner after work, she tells me she is too tired from work to come and drive down and just wants to relax at home after work. Its only about 30 mins drive
So the big issue is the parents
2nd issue is how loyal she is to them and I feel 2nd best or 2nd important person in her life
3rd is about she doesnt make much effort to see me during the week
If I could come to her place, I would come over during the week after work at least 1 more time a week
I would not cancel plans if I arranged something prior to my gf if my parents wanted me available
I wanted to marry this girl. We had a big fight and ive told her what I want and I will not see her untill it happens
But I still feel confused even if I get what I want. I did not think I would still feel confused. Maybe my patience as just run out and she has just pushed my feelings over the edge and i cannot get them back... or something
Sorry if this is very long, i tried to explain it as short as I could
Ive been with my girl for just over 4 years now, and I wanted to be with her for life but now I am unsure and confused.. She has told me that she wanted to be with me for life as well. She is 32 and I am 30. Im at the stage where I want to marry and have a house and family.
But we have had alot of bumps along the way
Its a pretty long story of issues but ill try to keep it short
The big issue is that after this long I still have not met her parents. Apparently her mum has a mental illness ( depression or something ) and always puts off meeting me. I dont know if its just laziness or what. Because of this mental issue I have been patient, 4 years patient and now I have had enough. Her dad has even spoken to her about it and they still have not bothered inviting me over
This would not bother me as much if my gf was not such a devoted and loyal daughter. She does nearly everything they ask her to. Which is another issue that really bothers me because I cannot come over her place, if her parents ask her to stay for dinner even if I want or arranged to do something with her she will cancel on me or try to see me after!! She does not rebel at all to them at all! Her parents are traditional and so is my gf. I dont think she wants to tell them or give them clues that we sleep with each other before we are engaged. But this leads to more infuriating things for me. She will never sleep over my place after a late night out and even not tell her parents that I am accompanying her on holiday trips. This makes me feel like a teenager and i get so mad at this crap
I also feel she is lazy on seeing me. We have only ever seen each other no more then once a week most times. I ask her to come over during the week for dinner after work, she tells me she is too tired from work to come and drive down and just wants to relax at home after work. Its only about 30 mins drive
So the big issue is the parents
2nd issue is how loyal she is to them and I feel 2nd best or 2nd important person in her life
3rd is about she doesnt make much effort to see me during the week
If I could come to her place, I would come over during the week after work at least 1 more time a week
I would not cancel plans if I arranged something prior to my gf if my parents wanted me available
I wanted to marry this girl. We had a big fight and ive told her what I want and I will not see her untill it happens
But I still feel confused even if I get what I want. I did not think I would still feel confused. Maybe my patience as just run out and she has just pushed my feelings over the edge and i cannot get them back... or something
Sorry if this is very long, i tried to explain it as short as I could
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