I dont really know where to start.
A brief background, have been married for 17 years, 4 children. First 8 years physically abusive. He got sober, hasn't pulled too much in the past 8 except verbally and emotionally. Telling me im worthless ect. In public people think hes great, tell me how lucky I am, what a great father he is:confused:
Struggled for a long time to build our business. Finally got a really good contract, he leaves and files for divorce. He has been seeing his bookeeper for the last year or more. He tells me of other times he has cheated in the past in graphic detail. Wont explain anything, wont even talk to me. Wtf is going on.
I put spyware on his phone a year ago, proved he was cheating. He promised to quit.
I guess hes been planning this, have found saftey deposit boxes, bank accounts I didnt know about, gold hes been hiding, it goes on and on.
I dont even know where im going with this or how to explain his relationship with the kids who are not dealing with this well, or the lies hes spreading around town. I feel like im in a really bad nightmare!
Sorry if this doesnt make any sense, im feeling overwhelemed at the moment.
A brief background, have been married for 17 years, 4 children. First 8 years physically abusive. He got sober, hasn't pulled too much in the past 8 except verbally and emotionally. Telling me im worthless ect. In public people think hes great, tell me how lucky I am, what a great father he is:confused:
Struggled for a long time to build our business. Finally got a really good contract, he leaves and files for divorce. He has been seeing his bookeeper for the last year or more. He tells me of other times he has cheated in the past in graphic detail. Wont explain anything, wont even talk to me. Wtf is going on.
I put spyware on his phone a year ago, proved he was cheating. He promised to quit.
I guess hes been planning this, have found saftey deposit boxes, bank accounts I didnt know about, gold hes been hiding, it goes on and on.
I dont even know where im going with this or how to explain his relationship with the kids who are not dealing with this well, or the lies hes spreading around town. I feel like im in a really bad nightmare!
Sorry if this doesnt make any sense, im feeling overwhelemed at the moment.
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