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This isn't the first time I have kissed this dude, but we have definitely become closer recently, I like him a lot more. so we kissed again last night and I keep thinking about it. It didn't feel like there was a spark or anything during, it just keeps coming to mind.
Is this normal to almost obsess over it cos I've never experienced this before?
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Hey,
So I met this girl through my weekend job at the supermarket. She is at the same college as me but the year below. She is only 2 months younger than me though!
We went on a date to a movie and dinner and we got on really well and talked about going again. I like her but I don't want to go any further if it is going to cause real upset when I go to uni in september.
(I haven't had a girlfriend before if that helps)
What should I do... carry on and then possibly upset her if distance won't work, or stop now?
Any help/opinion is welcomed!
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Like many women when I lie down my boobs kind of disappear. Obviously they don't run away and hide but they do kind of flatten out. I haven't got much boobs anyway but I was wondering what guys make of it? Like when you're having sex does it look weird? Is it a turn off?
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I recently won tickets to a rock band performance. Anyway, there is a girl I know who loves the band and lives just with her mother, she does not seem to have many friends but she seems a lovely girl. Anyway, she adores the rock band. Would it be ok if I put the tickets in an envelope for her and slid them posted them through her letter box? Maybe with a note attached like you two (her and her mother) have fun! Or would that be rude?
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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]I've been thinking over it for a week and I am still undecided. I wasn't going to tell the guy because I didn't know what I was going to do but now I am stuck.
Could guys please give me their opinion. [/COLOR]
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Girls, when you're on tinder do you tend to just swipe left or right based on the first pic or do you mostly click on the profile?
I'm not getting many matches, My first pic is of me at quite a distance, as in - not a selfie, so you can't really see my face that well.. But on my profile I have a couple of selfies. Was wondering if you would be more likely to click on the profile if the first pic wasn't that clear or more likely to just swipe nope.
Or maybe I'm just ugly haha :p
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hey, first of all I'm new to the fourm.
so, this has been on my mind for a while;
me and my girlfriend are online dating, she comes to visit and I come to visit her.
basically, the first two weeks of our relationship she sent a nude picture to a guy, basically cheated. she said she didnt think, etc. me, being the forgiving person I am gave her a second chance. I believe I made the right choice im happy. but it still lingers in the back of my head.
what would you guys do?
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Hey everyone, I have been reading threads about this topic for quite some time but never had a chance to get in touch with someone as all of these threads were too old and also I wanted to share my story with you.
(Excuse my english, I'm not a native speaker and I make mistakes sometimes.)
Where to start.. So since I was a little girl, I used to get obsessed with a certain type of people - older women who were powerful in some way. It could be a tv character, teacher, actress, singer and so on. My obsessions can be shot-term or they can last a few years. I have been crazy about one woman for 7 years and I just know I will always love her and she will always be my no. 1. I idolized her so much I don't even think of her as a person (more like God or something). She's perfect to me with all of her flaws but also very hard to get in touch with. I accepted I will never be able to be friends with her and sometimes I obsess over someone else (she's still no.1 though)..
I turned 20 this year and I'm about to graduate high school. I'm scared and confused and I can't explain how heartbroken I feel right now. Since the first year I felt there was something about my math teacher and throughout the time I realized I was falling in love with her. Not a romantic kind of love, I wasn't sexually attracted to her, I just felt the constant need to be around her, listen to her voice and just watch her teaching. Sometimes you meet a person whom you don't know at all but feel like you know him/her already so much. The problem with these "crushes" is that I always end up loving a person I can't have. This teacher was quite unpopular at school, she wasn't friendly with students and wasn't interested in them at all. She was very strict and one of the few teachers who would have silence during lessons. I guess she was about 55 years and she never yelled at us, she would only use words to slowly make an idiot out of yourself. She was in control and the way she treated other students was appealing to me but I tried really hard to make her like me. And eventually she did. I always smiled at her, worked at class, always treated her with respect. And after some time, she would be very nice to me. I looked forward to her classes and started to crave more information about her. I found where she lived, her schedule and other personal info, however I never wanted to stalk her "for real", I only wanted the info to fulfill me somehow. I once recorded her voice so that I could listen to it later (creepy I know).. I learnt how to hide all that so I act quite naturally around her, although at the beginning my seat mate told me: "she makes you so nervous, are you afraid of her?" ...I would never be able to tell her about my feelings and it hurts so much to know I might never see her again. When we had the last lesson and she was saying good bye, she was standing in front of me and said she felt comfortable teaching us and that she will never forget us. That made me cry so hard and she had tears in her eyes too when she saw me crying. I couldn't help and went to thank her later that week for everything and she was actually very happy about it. And all I wanna do is to hug her and never let go. I just admire her so MUCH.
I know this has a lot to do with the relationship I have with my own mother. I can't say she's a bad mother, but I could never have that "mother-connection" between us. And I think that's because I didn't have enough love when I was a baby although I can't remember.
I'm scared of my future as I never fell in love with a boy/girl my age. I don't have sex because I'm not interested and usually I can only think about that one woman I'm obsessed with at the time. I just wonder how to stop that and how to get the love I need. I don't wanna sound narcissistic (I have a pretty low self-esteem actually) but I'm popular at school, everyone knows me because I have a strong personality and I'm hard to not notice. I'm also smart and teachers like me, I'm not a nerd though. One of them even invited me to sleep at her place and watch movies and she said I'm an amazing friend. But all my life I've had this secret that no one knows about and I just don't know how to deal with it. I know I should see a therapist but I don't have money for that as I'm moving from my mother soon.
I wish I knew how to be "normal" and how to get rid of that problem. I HATE it but on the other hand I love it. Please write me about your story if you have a similar one and how you deal with it, what helps and stuff..
Thank you for reading, W.
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I've never watched Pornography, never had sex, never been on a date, and never been in a relationship for longer than two weeks. I have no problem kissing guys, but I can't go further, so I don't think I'm gay. And I rarely think about sex altogether. Despite not being the best looking, opportunities have been there, we always just mutually decided against it.
And now that I'm 22, I'm starting to consider whether I'm actually asexual. My question is, do you think asexuality exists? And if so, do you think you could be in a relationship without sex?
Seriously, I'm like a plant :')
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I slept with my brother's friend a few years ago - twice and from then on, I always dream about our night together! I don't love this guy at all, all I want to do is sleep with him and get that buzz again. Ive been with my boyfriend for three years and the bedroom department is boring, we tried but he isnt interested. I messaged this other guy about meeting in a hotel and I know for a fact he will sleep with me if I asked him but I feel disgusting and desperate and I do not want to cheat on my boyfriend. I have this unhealthy obsession and we are going to be at a party together soon, and I am absolutely dreading it because I don't think I will control myself! Please for the love of God help me! :(
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I keep going for certain boys, the ones that take a few drugs,
smoke weed everyday, i get on with them well and been for a walk
or coffee with them. Then however they just seem to fizzle out.
It makes me sad, and i'm attracted to these sorts of boys so i can't help it...
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Have wrote about him before, I think he is autistic and I know he suffers from depression as when he is stressed out he either snaps or retreats into a shell and just blanks out the world.
When he comes round to see me he doesnt take the hint I need my own space so sits in my living room for the 2-4 days he stays(despite me hinting I want him to go after a day or so) then just kicks off his shoes, uses my glass table for making cigarettes, buys takeaways and leaves the containers over my floor and the bedroom he stays in has the contents of his backpack all over floor
If you try and speak to him he gives a blank stare and seems confused (more in a naive way than nasty way)
If he ever owes me money he moans at paying it back(but does pay it back upon request with no delay its getting hold of him thats the problem to remind him) which is current problem, he owes me like £24 for something I sold him and this was from 8 days ago, he hasnt paid yet and as he hasnt been online I have had no chance to remind him, I know the second I do he will pay but he is so much in his own world it doesnt cross his mind he needs to pay, he will say something like "well you are not struggling to pay bills that means theres no rush"
Its just annoying each time he comes round I have no privacy, he treats my place like a hotel and moans say if I walk around in a dressing gown telling me to get changed, or moans that he has no credit on his phone and I may be busy in kitchen he will say "hurry up and ring for me" he likes to feel cold and I like to feel warm so he whinges about the heating in my flat, turns off my heating and opens my windows even in winter then starts moaning loudly when I tell him its my flat not his saying basically "well I feel warm and thats all that matters" and when he does leave it takes as much as a hour to clean up after him and he doesnt even say thanks for staying(or offer me any cash for electric used)
Just venting a little as I know he isnt malicious just a little naive and insenstive its justI feel I am getting the worst part of the bargain as I cant even stay at his as he lives with parents.
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