Have wrote about him before, I think he is autistic and I know he suffers from depression as when he is stressed out he either snaps or retreats into a shell and just blanks out the world.
When he comes round to see me he doesnt take the hint I need my own space so sits in my living room for the 2-4 days he stays(despite me hinting I want him to go after a day or so) then just kicks off his shoes, uses my glass table for making cigarettes, buys takeaways and leaves the containers over my floor and the bedroom he stays in has the contents of his backpack all over floor
If you try and speak to him he gives a blank stare and seems confused (more in a naive way than nasty way)
If he ever owes me money he moans at paying it back(but does pay it back upon request with no delay its getting hold of him thats the problem to remind him) which is current problem, he owes me like £24 for something I sold him and this was from 8 days ago, he hasnt paid yet and as he hasnt been online I have had no chance to remind him, I know the second I do he will pay but he is so much in his own world it doesnt cross his mind he needs to pay, he will say something like "well you are not struggling to pay bills that means theres no rush"
Its just annoying each time he comes round I have no privacy, he treats my place like a hotel and moans say if I walk around in a dressing gown telling me to get changed, or moans that he has no credit on his phone and I may be busy in kitchen he will say "hurry up and ring for me" he likes to feel cold and I like to feel warm so he whinges about the heating in my flat, turns off my heating and opens my windows even in winter then starts moaning loudly when I tell him its my flat not his saying basically "well I feel warm and thats all that matters" and when he does leave it takes as much as a hour to clean up after him and he doesnt even say thanks for staying(or offer me any cash for electric used)
Just venting a little as I know he isnt malicious just a little naive and insenstive its justI feel I am getting the worst part of the bargain as I cant even stay at his as he lives with parents.
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