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I guess I will dive right in and hope for the best. I have been married 14 years, have two kids preteen. One week and a day ago my h was outed by me for having an affair. He has "fallen in love" with a tow (the other woman) from an online game. "They are soul mates" he says. Four weeks ago the change happened. He closed himself off, lying to me about loving me and wanting to try for our marriage. Lying to me about who he was talking to. Lying to our kids. I sought counciling, he didn't want to. I'm still going and he is still cheating.
He told me he wants a divorce and to get a lawyer. So I did. He is still living in our home like everything is normal. Yesterday he looked over the divorce papers and wants me to go make a page worth of changes and he tells me he will be going to visit tow next week.
I know I've done a lot wrong, I know I can't keep going as things are and I know that at this moment I have no backbone and I am beat down.
I have been counciled to kick him out and let him get his own lawyer. I am a stay at home mom who was getting her degree while he worked. I am afraid that if I say the wrong thing he will make it all very nasty. I don't want that for the kids or myself.
Any advice would help.
Thanks all.
I guess I will dive right in and hope for the best. I have been married 14 years, have two kids preteen. One week and a day ago my h was outed by me for having an affair. He has "fallen in love" with a tow (the other woman) from an online game. "They are soul mates" he says. Four weeks ago the change happened. He closed himself off, lying to me about loving me and wanting to try for our marriage. Lying to me about who he was talking to. Lying to our kids. I sought counciling, he didn't want to. I'm still going and he is still cheating.
He told me he wants a divorce and to get a lawyer. So I did. He is still living in our home like everything is normal. Yesterday he looked over the divorce papers and wants me to go make a page worth of changes and he tells me he will be going to visit tow next week.
I know I've done a lot wrong, I know I can't keep going as things are and I know that at this moment I have no backbone and I am beat down.
I have been counciled to kick him out and let him get his own lawyer. I am a stay at home mom who was getting her degree while he worked. I am afraid that if I say the wrong thing he will make it all very nasty. I don't want that for the kids or myself.
Any advice would help.
Thanks all.
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