Hello - I am so at a loss, I'm hoping those out there can help, Please! We decided that my husband would stay at home after our 2nd child as the money he was bringing in did not justify him working. Plus more importantly it was better for the kids. Now our kids are 15 and 13, and I have layered on me years of resentment... In my mind he did not live up to my definition of a stay at home parent. The kids were dirty, the house was dirty, there were no meals on the table. Much of the house duties I felt I did during my time off and thus missing more of my children. Sadly, I have no proof and when the topic comes up he states that he does a lot and that I don't value him because he doesn't bring a paycheck home. So now the kids are older and in my mind I think yay! it is almost over... he can go to work - we can be ok financially. Unfortunately he shows no desire. Once he stated that I only wanted him to go to work so that he was miserable l ike me. I am at a loss. I feel used. I feel like I have another child not a husband. I get so jealous of women with husbands who want to work and support their wives, and have gifts bought for them. This all goes without saying that our sex-life is poor. Many times I feel used in that department as well. Is there any hope for me? I am so tired of crying... Sincerely, Yellowlady
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