Hi everyone. I'll begin by saying that I spent my Summer last year living and working in Spain. I loved it so much that I didn't want to come home and complete my final year - but come back I did, and have recently graduated. Considering the current economic climate, I didn't expect to get a job quickly. In the meantime things with an acquaintance started to turn more romantic and we both expressed wanting to do the TEFL (Teaching English as a Foreign Language) course and go to Spain - in the same city no less! So we both bought the course and have been working through it - but I was then offered a job, which I thought I could take for a few months (boyfriend was joking 'They can only have you three months, then it's Spain time!'). But now I'm there I really love the job and it's made things confusing. I now don't feel I could leave in a few months - more like I'd like to give this a try and go next Summer. Since telling my new boyfriend this, he's understanding but he seems a bit down sometimes. He's saying he might get an office job for a while, saying it would be better for the relationship (he sometimes works at weekends + his thinking is that at least if he works similar hours to me during the week we'd have whole weekends together. But I feel like I'd be holding him back as he's an adventurous guy who's full of life! But recently he also said he might go back to further education around the time I'd like to go travelling next year..:( I like to think we'll figure it out, but I really worry about the change in situation ruining things. He's taking me to meet his family soon, which is a good sign. A part of me still feels I should leave the job and go with him...what is everyones thoughts? | |||
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New boyfriend: plan was to go travelling together but I got offered a dream job?
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