| Long story short. Husband and I have been having trouble for awhile. Two months ago I told him I wanted to try separation to see if we can reconnect. We still live together as I have not found a place yet. We have three kids 10/6/4. Yesterday was our 9th wedding anniversary. I went back an forth all day trying to decide what to do. Finally decided to write him a little note, which follows. "I know you said there is nothing to celebrate, but I don't feel right saying nothing today. Hope this doesn't make anything worse. Just wanted to say I was thinking of you an the fun times we have had." I left the note where he would find it as I felt he wouldn't want me standing over him as he read it. He never mentioned it, nor did he acknowledge what the day was at all. While I tried to prepare myself for something like that, it still hurt me beyond belief. We have talked about working on our relationship, but after last night I am not sure if there is rea lly anything to work on. Should I keep trying? |
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