Not having a life outside of my wife and son

I've been married for just over two years and I'm already wanting out. I just feel like I have no life of my own, any more. Before we got married, I enjoyed putting on some music and just laying down and reading. I can't even remember the last time I did that. Whenever I go off to do something, on my own, my wife has to follow me or give me a hard time about not wanting to spend time with her. I don't even feel like I can go downstairs and watch something different on TV. When I'm with her, though, I just get bombarded with nothing but negativity. If she's not criticizing me, she's criticizing something on TV. It's got to the point where I've had to get up and walk away from her, because I just coudln't deal with all the negativity coming from her. I've tried to tell her that, but it doesn't seem to help anything. I've even told her that sometimes I just don't want to be around her because of how negative she is. She believes that there's nothing wrong with her and just gets mad at me when I don't want to be around her. About nine months ago, we had a baby, and things just got worse. From then, until now, I believe that she has been dealing with the effects of post partum depression. When we had the baby, we were given a booklet that outlined the signs of PPD. Two weeks after the baby came, she started showing some of the symptoms. I expressed my concerns to her, but she denied that anything was wrong. I could see that she was struggling and even suggested that she take a mom and baby course, so she could learn how to deal with this new baby. She got mad at me for that and said that she's a good mother and doesn't need any help. We've been to a husband and wife team who do counseling and it was suggested that she come speak with the wife, on her own. So far, she hasn't done this. I'm at wits end. I believe that marriage is for life and do not plan on leaving, however I don't know how many times I can deal with her yelling and screaming at me for one reason or the other. Everytime we argue, she kicks me out of her house. She pays the rent, from her account, and I pay the other bills so she things she can do that. I need help!

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