| I joined this forum after finding it by googling the words "my wife is always mad at me". My wife and I are both in our early 30's. My wife is a stay at home mom to our beautiful 19 month old daughter and I work full time as well as running a small business on the side to eventually become full time employment. This goal will be to make more money for our family to enjoy more things we want to do, save for the future and also allow me to take control of when we want days off or to do things. My wife has a few businesses she is trying to run from home, mostly a hobby and it keeps her busy. She is the type of person that has to always be busy. In all honesty her business will contributing a few thousand dollars to our bank account a year, she's only been doing it for a few months. However I try and support her any way possible with helping her set up and take down at trade shows and building her things to display her products on. She doesn't have a drivers license, only her learners. So anything she needs to ship, I do it, groceries we usually go together, so in the evenings it feels as if we're running errands all the time. Needless to say while I at work she's at home with our daughter and doesn't go out. She tells me she feels trapped and I do understand why. She has just recently decided to drive and practice for her drivers test. Which is a huge relief for me as I suggested it in the past and all I got was arguing and the silent treatment. However before our daughter she said she was going to get her license before we had her, so that way she'd be more independent and could do things while I was at work. When my wife had our daughter she did suffer from postpartum depression but didn't take any medication, she went to a counselling class (they picked her up and dropped her off while I was at work). And I still feel as if she may be suffering from it. She just seems to be angry with me and I just feel like I am around to make money and to take our daughter away when I am home to relieve the stress on her. Our daughter was a handful when she was born and we always discussed that we're only having one child, which now she's slowly opening up the idea to another and it scares me to death. Our love life is hot sometimes for a week at a time, but cold 95% of the time, as in sex once or maybe twice a month. I feel lonely for her affection and do release myself with porn, however I would never cheat on my wife with another woman. 99% of the time it's up to me to initiate any form of intimacy and the majority of the time I am shot down, which to be honest affects my ego. I definitely have a HD and she has a LD. I wish she showed the same level of desire for me as I do for her. I honestly just love making her feel good, the sex is great for me too...but I wish I could get her to enjoy sex to the fullest that the next time she'd come to me for it. What should I do? Now I am just wondering what I should do. I feel responsible for bringing in the majority of the household income, with working full time and trying to grow a small business. I also have to run the errands, usually with her and the little one with me to pick up stuff for the house. Sometimes I have to run out and get things because the little one is sleeping or it's just easier for one of us (always me) to get what is needed. My wife doesn't really clean very much, doesn't cook supper and when she thinks about supper it's when I get home from work and have to ask her. I help her with supper so I'm not the guy who shows up from work and just sits on the couch with the TV on...but if all she is doing is keeping our little girl busy during the day. Does it seem unreasonable to at least have things cleaned up a bit or make supper? Sorry for all the questions, but any advice or info would be great. I am seriously considering us seeing a MC. And maybe a doctor checkup to see if anything is wrong with us physically? | |||
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