Just found out my wife of soon to be 2 years probably cheated. Sorry if this is long but I have to give details so things are not one sided.
We started seeing each other when we were both married to our ex's. We had so much in common that it was wrong to be with the wrong person. I still tried to work it out with my ex and she was already divorced. Yes I trying to do something that I know I didn't want but in my ex's eyes I wanted her to know I did try. I would take our daughter to see her in a different state and my current wife was my girlfriend at the time. She didn't like it but I had to take our daughter to see her mom because she couldn't afford to come see her. After I found out she had been sleeping with someone I knew it was time to quit (hypocrite I know). I invested everything with my current wife and things were amazing. She was perfect. We dated for 3 yr and we tied the knot and we knew it was a good decision.
Things were ok between us. I was jealous because she liked to have more guy friends than girlfriends but I managed to try and control it a little bit. We would argue but nothing to where things are right now.
She went to San Antonio for some training this May and she met someone there. They stayed in contact and she would text him throughout her work day and they would be on the phone when I was working night for a month. I knew something g was wrong because she was different. She told me she wasn't happy and we talked about it. I always told her things would get better if we work through it. In June I saw the guy text her at 945pm when we had friends over. She deleted it like all the messages from him. I confronted her and she promised it wasn't anyone yet I saw the name of the sender. She broke the phone when I told her to call him. She did that after 3 rings. She didn't have a phone so she used email to contact him, the first one said, "here I am in bed wishing you were holding me like those last couple of days together." Then they went on to say how much they love each other and want to be together. He's married with two kids and we don't have any just my daughter from my last marriage. I found out the password and printed the emails and she did that again with a fake email she created. I found that out as well then they started to Skype while I was at work. Took me till mid June to find that out. We would argue because my brother is staying with us and he told me she would go to bed at like 7-8pm. She never did that and it was to Skype with him after reading the Skype messages to confirm it. Then they would talk at work so it doesn't show in her call logs. I confronted her about it and she lost it. I told her to stay with a friend and not come home and she came home and broke our front doors window. I called the cops when she wouldn't calm down and she got arrested. She moved her clothes out the house and is staying at her friends apartment because she lives with her fiance. We didn't talk for a week and she missed me. Even with a no contact order issued by the court we contacted each other and I stayed with her a couple of days. She told me she has a miscarriage and the kid was mine. Did research and it seems like it was a lie because we had sex 2 days after that happened. It's hard for a girl to do that because she is in pain. She's now texting him and calling him on a daily basis and she tells me that she isn't when she really is. She says she wants to work it out but it's hard for me to see that yet I'm always trying to see her and be with her.
I just need some guidance on what to do because all of our friends might choose n e sides and it's hard to deal with someone that constantly lies to your face. Sorry for the length but if u read this then you know I don't know what to think right now. Any help and guidance would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for your time.
We started seeing each other when we were both married to our ex's. We had so much in common that it was wrong to be with the wrong person. I still tried to work it out with my ex and she was already divorced. Yes I trying to do something that I know I didn't want but in my ex's eyes I wanted her to know I did try. I would take our daughter to see her in a different state and my current wife was my girlfriend at the time. She didn't like it but I had to take our daughter to see her mom because she couldn't afford to come see her. After I found out she had been sleeping with someone I knew it was time to quit (hypocrite I know). I invested everything with my current wife and things were amazing. She was perfect. We dated for 3 yr and we tied the knot and we knew it was a good decision.
Things were ok between us. I was jealous because she liked to have more guy friends than girlfriends but I managed to try and control it a little bit. We would argue but nothing to where things are right now.
She went to San Antonio for some training this May and she met someone there. They stayed in contact and she would text him throughout her work day and they would be on the phone when I was working night for a month. I knew something g was wrong because she was different. She told me she wasn't happy and we talked about it. I always told her things would get better if we work through it. In June I saw the guy text her at 945pm when we had friends over. She deleted it like all the messages from him. I confronted her and she promised it wasn't anyone yet I saw the name of the sender. She broke the phone when I told her to call him. She did that after 3 rings. She didn't have a phone so she used email to contact him, the first one said, "here I am in bed wishing you were holding me like those last couple of days together." Then they went on to say how much they love each other and want to be together. He's married with two kids and we don't have any just my daughter from my last marriage. I found out the password and printed the emails and she did that again with a fake email she created. I found that out as well then they started to Skype while I was at work. Took me till mid June to find that out. We would argue because my brother is staying with us and he told me she would go to bed at like 7-8pm. She never did that and it was to Skype with him after reading the Skype messages to confirm it. Then they would talk at work so it doesn't show in her call logs. I confronted her about it and she lost it. I told her to stay with a friend and not come home and she came home and broke our front doors window. I called the cops when she wouldn't calm down and she got arrested. She moved her clothes out the house and is staying at her friends apartment because she lives with her fiance. We didn't talk for a week and she missed me. Even with a no contact order issued by the court we contacted each other and I stayed with her a couple of days. She told me she has a miscarriage and the kid was mine. Did research and it seems like it was a lie because we had sex 2 days after that happened. It's hard for a girl to do that because she is in pain. She's now texting him and calling him on a daily basis and she tells me that she isn't when she really is. She says she wants to work it out but it's hard for me to see that yet I'm always trying to see her and be with her.
I just need some guidance on what to do because all of our friends might choose n e sides and it's hard to deal with someone that constantly lies to your face. Sorry for the length but if u read this then you know I don't know what to think right now. Any help and guidance would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for your time.
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