I found this site and it created interest .
My Story, have only been involved with three women in my life, First girlfriend 4 years, Second 2.5 then I was married for 29,
I have been divorced/separated for 2 years, No contact with my ex for over a year. except for a couple of emails.
Here is my dilemma, When married I traveled a lot, ran the family bus. and did pretty much everything to support everyone but myself. (I know DuH)... So I have no real hobbies, I am sociable but I do not have many close friends living near by. Lost most of them during my marriage. Ex did not live being social. So I did what she wanted. (another DUH)
I have never been single for a long period of time. My confidence in dating is non existent, Never really have had to date.
I would really like to start dating again but have no clue how to or who to ask how. None the less how to ask someone out. I am a good guy, old fashioned, a gentleman, believe in treating people well, Hardly drink, am a director in the entertainment business. One thing is I am naive in this world. Sometime to literal I guess.
I am finding myself, but sometimes I think about contacting the ex and seeing if she is ok and talk, maybe ask her out. She was my closet friend. Would I want to get back together, yes and no. Not if it was the same though.
Should I contact her? I want her to be ok, I was so used to taking care of her I can not tell if this just the result of a habit or just wanting to know why she will not talk to me or why she filed, never knew the actual reason. We talked about separating and then getting back together but then divorce papers showed up.
I have no idea of how to proceed with this new single life in an area South of Seattle? I find this area to be a place where people are closed off ( the so called Seattle Freeze).. Where do you meet single woman and of course how do I?
I guess I am asking for opinions on how to proceed and what to do? and how to do it? Where to do it?
My Story, have only been involved with three women in my life, First girlfriend 4 years, Second 2.5 then I was married for 29,
I have been divorced/separated for 2 years, No contact with my ex for over a year. except for a couple of emails.
Here is my dilemma, When married I traveled a lot, ran the family bus. and did pretty much everything to support everyone but myself. (I know DuH)... So I have no real hobbies, I am sociable but I do not have many close friends living near by. Lost most of them during my marriage. Ex did not live being social. So I did what she wanted. (another DUH)
I have never been single for a long period of time. My confidence in dating is non existent, Never really have had to date.
I would really like to start dating again but have no clue how to or who to ask how. None the less how to ask someone out. I am a good guy, old fashioned, a gentleman, believe in treating people well, Hardly drink, am a director in the entertainment business. One thing is I am naive in this world. Sometime to literal I guess.
I am finding myself, but sometimes I think about contacting the ex and seeing if she is ok and talk, maybe ask her out. She was my closet friend. Would I want to get back together, yes and no. Not if it was the same though.
Should I contact her? I want her to be ok, I was so used to taking care of her I can not tell if this just the result of a habit or just wanting to know why she will not talk to me or why she filed, never knew the actual reason. We talked about separating and then getting back together but then divorce papers showed up.
I have no idea of how to proceed with this new single life in an area South of Seattle? I find this area to be a place where people are closed off ( the so called Seattle Freeze).. Where do you meet single woman and of course how do I?
I guess I am asking for opinions on how to proceed and what to do? and how to do it? Where to do it?
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