I'm 21 and I just feel like I'm never going to meet the right guy. I've only ever had one relationship which lasted like 3months and one "fling" for about 6 months. Both of these guys only really wanted one thing (sex)..
I just feel like I'm not going to meet a guy that I can eventually settle down with. I'm at uni and studying a childhood studies course so mostly full of girls, I have a job which is working with young people and most colleagues are girls. I had been in societies but atm not in any as I have too much uni work to do as a third year student. Then I'll be doing a pgce this september which I doubt I'll have any time to meet someone. I'm doing camp america this summer and I think I could potentially meet someone but I doubt it and even if I did he might be from another country or from a different city in england.
all I want is to get into a relationship where I can be myself and open up to someone. I know because I am quite shy around guys this would take a while but I just don't want to be too busy to ever meet someone. like once I finish my pgce I'll be a teacher.. and teachers are always working.
I don't know, part of me just thinks if i just focus on myself a guy will come along.. but I've been saying this for a few years now. I do get a bit of attention from guys e.g. in a nightclub but it never goes anywhere. I think i'm attractive (not to be big headed) but I don't have loads of guys chasing me.. probs because I'm not popular enough lol. It's actually getting me down. I know relationships can be sometime problematic and can bring stress with e.g. breakups, arguments etc. but I just feel ready to let my guard down to someone I can trust enough to be in a relationship with.
Anyone else feel like this? Or felt like this in the past and found someone?
I just feel like I'm not going to meet a guy that I can eventually settle down with. I'm at uni and studying a childhood studies course so mostly full of girls, I have a job which is working with young people and most colleagues are girls. I had been in societies but atm not in any as I have too much uni work to do as a third year student. Then I'll be doing a pgce this september which I doubt I'll have any time to meet someone. I'm doing camp america this summer and I think I could potentially meet someone but I doubt it and even if I did he might be from another country or from a different city in england.
all I want is to get into a relationship where I can be myself and open up to someone. I know because I am quite shy around guys this would take a while but I just don't want to be too busy to ever meet someone. like once I finish my pgce I'll be a teacher.. and teachers are always working.
I don't know, part of me just thinks if i just focus on myself a guy will come along.. but I've been saying this for a few years now. I do get a bit of attention from guys e.g. in a nightclub but it never goes anywhere. I think i'm attractive (not to be big headed) but I don't have loads of guys chasing me.. probs because I'm not popular enough lol. It's actually getting me down. I know relationships can be sometime problematic and can bring stress with e.g. breakups, arguments etc. but I just feel ready to let my guard down to someone I can trust enough to be in a relationship with.
Anyone else feel like this? Or felt like this in the past and found someone?
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