Me and my flat mate are friends but recently im confused by his actions. He broke up with girlfriend over a month ago, but since then we have been really close.
Anyway one night we me,his ex and him went to predrinks at their mutual friends house - he was already pretty drunk and tad bit high - he then asked if i liked him ? i said no no no ! at first i thought he was kidding but then he started to elaborate saying my friend in the flat had told him and its messy right now, but tbh i never in broached the subject so i was just weirded out. I then went outside for a smoke with his ex as we were walking to the actual party when she asked me the same question ? i was completely baffled and sort of paranoid about the situation - i didnt want mine and this guys relationship to be awkward if he thinks i like him.
Im really afraid or at least restrained when near him. However she went back home so i felt it was okay to be myself around him more fully. Since he asked he whole question, i was just confused about the situation - so i asked him about it, but as i had thought, he never remembered - he told my friend he was embarrassed about the situation. So i guess he never liked me - ouch !
I didnt want our friendship to be awks after that so i acted normally after that. Me and him both were watching back to back tv shows till like 5 in the morning. He was like lets watch black sails and just k.o. out on my bed - inferring i can sleep round. Usually he would normally wake me up so i can sleep in my bed, so i dont know whats changed. I eventually did kind of fall asleep and then he started to rest on me - he tends to be quite touchy with other girls - so i didnt really care to this point. He went out for a smoke and came back and wanted to sleep next to me but i felt this was awks so i kind elbowed him and he topped and tailed instead. I woke up and he was like hugging me feet lool and was like stroking my legs - kind of weird for a friend to do. So i up and left.
is he overly friendly ? is it okay to sleep next to a guy in his bed and have him touch you like that ?
Anyway one night we me,his ex and him went to predrinks at their mutual friends house - he was already pretty drunk and tad bit high - he then asked if i liked him ? i said no no no ! at first i thought he was kidding but then he started to elaborate saying my friend in the flat had told him and its messy right now, but tbh i never in broached the subject so i was just weirded out. I then went outside for a smoke with his ex as we were walking to the actual party when she asked me the same question ? i was completely baffled and sort of paranoid about the situation - i didnt want mine and this guys relationship to be awkward if he thinks i like him.
Im really afraid or at least restrained when near him. However she went back home so i felt it was okay to be myself around him more fully. Since he asked he whole question, i was just confused about the situation - so i asked him about it, but as i had thought, he never remembered - he told my friend he was embarrassed about the situation. So i guess he never liked me - ouch !
I didnt want our friendship to be awks after that so i acted normally after that. Me and him both were watching back to back tv shows till like 5 in the morning. He was like lets watch black sails and just k.o. out on my bed - inferring i can sleep round. Usually he would normally wake me up so i can sleep in my bed, so i dont know whats changed. I eventually did kind of fall asleep and then he started to rest on me - he tends to be quite touchy with other girls - so i didnt really care to this point. He went out for a smoke and came back and wanted to sleep next to me but i felt this was awks so i kind elbowed him and he topped and tailed instead. I woke up and he was like hugging me feet lool and was like stroking my legs - kind of weird for a friend to do. So i up and left.
is he overly friendly ? is it okay to sleep next to a guy in his bed and have him touch you like that ?
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