Hello everyone. I posted my problem with my boyfriend on the other section on relationships. It kind of got out of control and ballooned out to too many responses and i got overwhelmed.
I got a private message from a member and she suggested that that i post here and start fresh and to ask experienced ladies for advice.
Basically, my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year. He is an absolutely wonderful man and i can definitely see us together forever. So in sort of short, at the beginning, i was 'multi dating' as people here have called it. So during the first little while with my now boyfriend i saw another guy and was intimate with him. That ended and i've been with my guy since then and we've been great together.
So my boyfriend found out about the other guy and freaked. Turns out he knows him professionally and hates him. So he says I cheated on him and with a loser at that so what does that say about me etc.
I told him that it meant nothing and that i am absolutely not like that any more. He didn't really accept that. He's also major pissed off because while he an i waited a while before we got intimate, he figured out that i didn't really wait with the other guy.
So the member who private wrote me suggested i ask for advice here from ladies who can give me advice on how to move forward. My boyfriend really is the MOST special to me and i want him to believe that. That member also advised me not to have sex with him until it's all better which i don't really get. Anyway, we are sort of on a short break now but i did see him yeasterday.
Your advice is really appreciated Thanks
I got a private message from a member and she suggested that that i post here and start fresh and to ask experienced ladies for advice.
Basically, my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year. He is an absolutely wonderful man and i can definitely see us together forever. So in sort of short, at the beginning, i was 'multi dating' as people here have called it. So during the first little while with my now boyfriend i saw another guy and was intimate with him. That ended and i've been with my guy since then and we've been great together.
So my boyfriend found out about the other guy and freaked. Turns out he knows him professionally and hates him. So he says I cheated on him and with a loser at that so what does that say about me etc.
I told him that it meant nothing and that i am absolutely not like that any more. He didn't really accept that. He's also major pissed off because while he an i waited a while before we got intimate, he figured out that i didn't really wait with the other guy.
So the member who private wrote me suggested i ask for advice here from ladies who can give me advice on how to move forward. My boyfriend really is the MOST special to me and i want him to believe that. That member also advised me not to have sex with him until it's all better which i don't really get. Anyway, we are sort of on a short break now but i did see him yeasterday.
Your advice is really appreciated Thanks
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