Workaholic husband and sex...

I'm new here and just looking for some insight to a very frustrating issue that I'm having, I'm really not comfortable talking about this to anyone in real life... I'll keep this as short as possible! So my husband and I are self-employed and work from home. That being said, he is a workaholic and knows it. Almost from the minute he wakes up to the minute he goes to sleep he is working or thinking about work. So we got into an argument the other day about sex. Here is the way I see it... He wants oral as a "release" but he isn't really interested in anything else. It doesn't matter who initiates, he wants to start out with oral for him but then doesn't want it to stop or change to anything else, he finishes, and I'm left hanging... This happens about 9 times out of 10. It got to a point where we don't kiss, don't cuddle, he doesn't touch me pretty much at all. So this leaves me feeling unloved, unattractive, and it has pretty much turned me off sex at all. Right now, I feel like even if he were to want to touch me I wouldn't want him to anymore at all. They way he sees it (what I gathered from our last argument). He says that he is stressed and needs that "release" and that he doesn't want to have to worry about doing anything else with me. He said that with work he feels like he doesn't have time to help me get off too or to cuddle afterwards. He just wants his and then wants to immediately get back to work. I don't understand how he can be as stressed as he claims he is... He does work from home and being a business owner is stressful, I get that because I own a business as well. However, I take care of all the cleaning, cooking, grocery shopping, bill paying, taking care of our pets (no kids), etc... I was really hurt by him saying that he just doesn't have time to make sure I'm satisfied too and I have no clue what to do now!!

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