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I've wrote a lot on here asking for advice. I've been unlucky in relationships and the last guy I dated turned out to already have a girlfriend...!!


Now that I've landed myself a great job after graduating a month back, I've been busy with work and a relationship has been the last thing on my mind, however... I signed up to Tinder (a 'dating' app on iPhone, everyone really just goes on for the banter, as did I) i was considering deleting it and told this guys who I was talking to on there, he gave me his number. After deleting it, a few days later I decided to text him letting him know my number and wishing him a good holiday (he's away with his family in France) he returned my message on WhatsApp and we've been talking daily, our messages are very long and I usually just read and later reply once the following day... So one message a day basically, he has 2 or 3 times followed up on his text when i haven't got round to replying to, simple by adding/asking what I'm to today etc.
We both know a couple mutual aquentences and we've also been sending a couple of pictures to each other.
I also found his surname through his WhatsApp name and checked him out on Facebook, he's an attractive guy and going into his 4th year as a medic student. Brains and looks, plus he's a gentleman and seems quite keen on me. After his family holiday he's going back to his uni city and then going to Ibiza 3 days later. He offered to come home so we could go for a drink (first date) "I was wondering when you were off work cos I could come home on thursday/Friday before going away" I was off work on Friday but already have plans, then I said that I might visit him in Leeds sometime as it'll be something different, but he'd probably be busy because he's on placement this year etc... and then I joked seeee ya at Xmas! (He's a student in Leeds and obviously that's his holidays).
He told me about his day and then said "That's sound, thought it was unlikely and would've been pretty minging logistics for my flight. That'd be good if you did make it down, and I don't think I'm that busy beginning of the year. And always free on weekends. But I'm sure I'll be home some weekend before too long"


I can tell he's a great guy, he's ticking the boxes from what I see now- but I'm struggling to even reply to him. Nows not the time for a relationship and if I'm not interested in a relationship I'm not interesting in dating, a couple months down the line when I've passed my driving a sort other things out, yes but now nope!
I also think since having a lot of relationship trouble, I'm now closing myself off.


My question is: I can see he's a great guy, but I don't want any of this right now. Should I tell him how I feel?




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