Is my wife delusional or am I wrong not to tell her she is a "Yummy Mommy" ??

Greetings: I am new to this site and I'll tell you a real brief description of myself. I won't go into great detail so I don't bore anyone. I am 40yrs old with a 38 yr old wife and 2 kids, aged 5 and 2. We recently hit our 7th anniversary, lots of good years, a few bad ones, not unlike some couples, nothing violent, no affairs or anything. After the kids were born, she has gotten less and less interested in her figure and her looks. I on the other hand have maintained mine and have women in their 20's and 30's compliment me on a regular basis. Not ****y but being honest. My problem is my wife wants to always hear that she is a "Yummy Mommy". She is a great mom, good wife but I can't say that she is a "Yummy Mommy". Let's all face it, we all know that Yummy Mommies diet, workout, jog and look for the most part like they never had a child. My wife only walks, nothing else, won't take advice from anyone. She has a habit of wearing clothes that aren't appropriate for her body, tank tops, short shorts for example. She has a big stomach, and very flabby thighs. Her friends are vain and are all slender women. She wants to fit in and wear what they wear but she doesn't have the figure for it. Her mother is taller and weighs less than her so it's not just genetics. Even my mom and sister mentioned that she needs to slow down on the sweets if she wants to wear tight clothes and a 2 piece bathing suit etc. They said that to me and not her of course. I routinely see women that are older than her in way better shape than she is so it's only natural I am a bit envious. She has time to exercise as she only works 3 days a week. She just doesn't have any interest, that's all. I work 6 days steady and make time to go work out or jog at 9pm when the kids are in bed so I do help out with bath and bed in case you are wondering. I am not sexist at all and I think if a man has a woman in his life that is vain and takes care of herself, then he should step up and take care of himself too. I don't think anyone regardless of sex should think they are better than what they are. It's like having to tell somebody they are a great violinist even though they hardly practice playing it. I realise looks aren't everything but we all like sex and part of sex appeal is looks. Small percentages of us don't care if the other partner is overweight but most of us do. Do I have to lie and tell her that she is a "Yummy Mommy" just to appease her even though it isn't true?

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