tired of the cycle

We went for a nice family drive with our two young kids to Christmas Tree Lane and got into a big fight on the way home which was so disappointing since it was supposed to be a special and peaceful family night. It was about my husband telling me which exit to take and when he started challenging me I said please dont do this and lets not talk unless its positive and he kept going. I melted down of course and also brought up that I didnt appreciate that he spent the trip looking at golf stuff on his phone after I asked him to engage with the kids while we were slowly waiting to drive through the Christmas Tree Lane. THIS all on top of last night us sleeping in separate beds because of another argument about him being insensitive and wanting to go into the garage to work on gold stuff at 10pm at night instead of wanting to snuggle with me in bed. I am discouraged and brought up that we should go back to counseling, so we'll see. Some advice would be nice s o we can Hope to have a nice Christmas. Feel like sometimes I should stop responding even when I am insulted or upset because it just starts a fight and my mother's advice which was very good was to stop expecting something I may never get and try to see the good in my husband instead of focusing on my frustrations.

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He is way more unhappy then he will ever tell me!

He left his cell phone at home on accident today and I was tempted to see what he has been searching so I could have a better idea for a christmas present. I saw he is searching womens profiles on facebook and their pictures, lots of them, and he doesn't ever go on facebook. This is following me finding him looking on craigslist for a fun way to end the weekend with a bang on personal ads on craigslist which he says is for ****s and giggles and was for amusement more than anything.

On our anniversary while drunk he disclosed how horrible I am, and how he only wants me for the kids. After this I told him that because of our previous issues (emotional distance, never being present, etc) that made me lose my feelings for him and I would like to salvage the relationship before I graduate but if the relationship isn't better I would probably file for divorce. He said he will not stop me and nothing will change because he works too much but he does love me. I only see him one hour a day while he is getting ready for work, and a few hours on sunday before bedtime. I take really good care of him making his lunches and always leaving a plate in the refrigerater, cookies, and such as well. I feel like I'm just playing house with nothing in return but financial support. I'm not really sure where this is going but I told him I want to salvage it, but I guess it seems his heart is elsewhere :scratchhead: This really sucks, are all marriages so difficult?
It just seems it should be much more simple to please one another if both try.

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Big Bottomed Woman

My girlfriend is a lively shortish woman with red hair, a big bosom, tiny waist, and big round butt.

My ex wife and girlfriends before her were all sort of thin and lithe. I never saw myself getting together with a curvy gal until I met my girlfriend. Well I have to say I'm liking it. I'm liking it a lot. I am finding that a voluptuous woman has some definite advantages, especially in the love-making department.

Do any of you guys prefer big booty women?
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Duck Dynasty fans...do you support Phil?

I love the show and were wondering if there are any others out there that enjoy it too?

With all the recent news headlines around Phil, do you support him or no?

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He left tonight

Well, looks like I am making my way through these forums rapidly. He left 4 days before Christmas, he will not see the kids for Christmas and today marks the 9th anniversary of the day we had to take my dad off of life support.

I wish I could say this doesn't hurt. How on earth do you make it through the first night?

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does she like me?

anon or delete please, it's a little weird (a little)

so she is my younger sister's friend and i dont know if she is just joking around, or she actually likes me

so here are the reasons i think she likes me:
1. she always comes up to me and strokes me (i know very weird)
2. rather than phone my sister on her mobile phone, she will phone the house phone, which i could pick up. i overheard my sister point this out to her, and she was just silent
3. whenever she is around at the house, she will often come to me and just talk or flirt. the best example of her flirting is taking my xbox controller and hiding it, and then refusing to give it to me unless i said i loved her infront of her friends. then she would hold my hand and pull me to her friends so i could say that. later, her and two friends were just tickling me for like 5 mins (very annoying) when my sister told them i am very ticklish.

and then with the talking to me, she has 3-4 times just left her friends and went over to me to talk for like 5 mins

4. she always smiles at me (okay i know not the best reason)
5. she always makes excuses to go over to me

reasons i dont think she likes me:

1. she could just be messing around, impressing her friends
2. she started a facebook conversation, and finished it
3. i started a facebook conversation, and she finished it

thanks

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What should I do about this?

Well there is a girl, we are good friends but we were strictly platonic for the longest time, but recently she has been acting differently to me, the problem is that one of my friends is madly in love with her and we are very close , but she keeps insisting they are friends. Her behavior towards me changed in the past few days, I didn't see her for 4 days because I was studying for my finals, soon as she saw me she hugged me, saying how much she missed me, and just held my arm for a really long time, she would also randomly kiss me on the cheek at random points in front of my friend. Today was my flight and we had a bit of a get together, at one moment she just came up to me and kissed me on the cheek, then hugged me and kept saying how she wants to take me to her home country , how she wants me to fly over there, that she will miss me a lot, in front of my friend and he seemed pretty angry. I don't want to hurt my friend, I like her and she clearly likes me, how do I resolve this without hurting my friend?

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Why is it so hard?

judging by all the posts in TSR it seems lots of girls sleep around and guys cheat a lot. How come I never get any action :confused:

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Stopped texting me as much, is he losing interest?

been dating for roughly 2 months. so far we've texted everyday day, basically throughout the day. then for no apparent reason he didn't text me the other day and it was the first time we hadn't spoken (I rarely text him first due to various reasons, such as his work hours).the last 2 days I've sent the first text (being the weekend, he's not working) and we've talked for several hours after until one of us goes to bed.

normally I wouldn't be too bothered about the no contact thing its just that its a change from his usual behaviour. I thought he might be losing interest but he still makes references to things we are going to do together in the future or when we next see each other. that's just confused me even more. help?

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Has any ever wanted no strings

I have a question and I know most men will say yes
But is it weird for a married women to want a sexual
Relationship with someone else with no strings
Attached?
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What is the #1 thing you wish your husband would do

I've been asked to teach a class at church to the men on marriage. My main area of focus is going to be, "what do our wives really want from us?" Now, I know what my wife's needs and love languages are but she is only one woman. I'm curious as to what other married women really wished their husbands would do for them?

Listen more intently?
Not belittle your thoughts or needs?
More sex?
Less sex?
Help with kids?

:scratchhead:

Feel free to go into detail on not only the 'what's' but the 'why's' as well.

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advice please

In trying to get out of our driveway yesterday I ran into and bumped a wood box my husband uses for storage. It had rotted and fell apart. I ran over the rotted piece, and ended up with a flat tire.
My husband was mad and upset with me because it was a new tire. I offered to buy a new tire to replace it because it was my fault. He said no we would just use the spare and get the flat tire fixed. Besides it was a stupid idea to buy a new one.
I told him gee, thanks for calling me stupid. All I wanted was acknowledgement for the gesture. Something like thanks for the offer, I appreciate it, but I'll just get the flat fixed.
He refused to see my offer as anything but stupid, and only focus on what I had done. What do you all think?

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Troubles with Arousal

First of all, this is probably a more female oriented question, but I won't totally blow off answers from men by any means.

I am a 22 year old woman. My husband and I have been married for a year and known each other three and a half years. We met on the internet and talked for six months before I flew down to meet him. Suffice to say we did not wait to 'do the deed' so to speak until we were married. When we first met, sparks flew. Just his touch made me incredibly excited. I loved how he touched me worship-fully, how he lingered over my body. And then the actual sex part....and it was all gone. Just *poof* and pain.

This has always been an issue for me. My husband has been with three women other than me and all of them claim he was the best they ever had. I've been with 1 other than him and the problem is exactly the same. I can get aroused, but once it comes to the actual 'sex' part, it's like my brain shuts down. Plus, once it happens I can't get aroused from anything ever again. It's like my brain is stuck in some teenage lovey dovey state but when it comes to the actual act, I can't do it. It's like I'm pushing myself too hard.

I love my husband so much, and it breaks my heart to lie to him all the time. I've literally tried everything except hormone therapy. The only enjoyment I get is from the actual 'act' now and it has to be...intense. I have never in my life orgasmed I don't think.

The other issue is that as our relationship progresses he has interests in more sex things. Like...from the other end. I have done it several times and I HATE it but I'm afraid to tell him.

I have struggled with this my entire life and I am sick to death of it. I don't want it to ruin our marriage, we have a 10 month old son that we both love to death. In no way is our relationship going stale otherwise I just WANT satisfaction. I never deny him simply because I feel that I don't have the right, and it does feel good to some degree. We have sex at least twelve times a week with BJs in between, so in no way am I depriving him, I just need some suggestions. Anything would be helpful, I'm desperate.

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Getting over a break up

Hiya

Broke up with boyfriend a few days ago, wasn't a nice one and there's still a lot up in the air. He was pretty bad to me for three years, I think I must have just clung on to him being the one so I stayed all this time, so I'm having to spend some time forgiving myself too.

Does anyone have any break up tips? I'm fed up of feeling sad and feeling like half of me has been ripped apart. I want to get my life back. What things would you recommend to help deal with this and not fall into the forever alone thinking trap?

Thanks :)
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diversity?

Hey girls, just been thinking, would you go out with a Sikh dude with a turban but trimmed beard? Is it down to personal preference or something to do with religion lol. Thanks.

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