We went for a nice family drive with our two young kids to Christmas Tree Lane and got into a big fight on the way home which was so disappointing since it was supposed to be a special and peaceful family night. It was about my husband telling me which exit to take and when he started challenging me I said please dont do this and lets not talk unless its positive and he kept going. I melted down of course and also brought up that I didnt appreciate that he spent the trip looking at golf stuff on his phone after I asked him to engage with the kids while we were slowly waiting to drive through the Christmas Tree Lane. THIS all on top of last night us sleeping in separate beds because of another argument about him being insensitive and wanting to go into the garage to work on gold stuff at 10pm at night instead of wanting to snuggle with me in bed. I am discouraged and brought up that we should go back to counseling, so we'll see. Some advice would be nice s o we can Hope to have a nice Christmas. Feel like sometimes I should stop responding even when I am insulted or upset because it just starts a fight and my mother's advice which was very good was to stop expecting something I may never get and try to see the good in my husband instead of focusing on my frustrations.
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