While brushing my teeth at 10:30pm, the doorbell rings. Wife answers it. I turn around and her parents are at the doorway to the master bath. MIL proceeded to lecture me for 90 minutes.
She said:
1. I am a sorry piece of ****. We have told -wife- to divorce your ass but she says she still loves you for some reason. She is going to keep this house.
2. You are never going to get custody of -daughter-. -Wife- can find her a man that will move into this house and be -daughters- father. You are going to lose everything.
3. She wanted to beat the snot out of me and gladly spend 24 hours in jail for it.
4. You do this, this, this and this wrong. Your family is a piece of ****. They don't love you. you don't know what love is.
5. She will spend everything she has so I do not get to see my child.
6. this goes on and on.
I learned:
1. Wife tells her mom about every single thing that I did not do right by her standards.
2. Wife fits all 10 signs of an emotional bully per Dr Tara.
3. Wife repeated lied and distorted the truth about what type of person I am to her family.
4. Wife and her family have spoken ill about me to all our friends.
Wife has not shown love in 6 years. Sleeps in daughters room for last 5 years, no kissing, no love, she always is with her mom. Always on phone with facebook, games, texting. Wife is married to her mom, dad, brother, nephew and I am a distant 6th in the pecking order. She has spent 3+ hours with her mom in 26 of last 29 days. How can you have a marriage when you dont spend anytime with your spouse?
I am the only one that plays with daughter. Goes on rides at fairs, goes swimming, does art, does wii, plays with dolls, etc. Does that make me a bad father?
Sorry this got a little long and off subject. Just so confused by it all. Too much **** to deal with.
Then -wife- has to guts to ask me why I am not going with her to her parents house so I can swim with our daughter.
She said:
1. I am a sorry piece of ****. We have told -wife- to divorce your ass but she says she still loves you for some reason. She is going to keep this house.
2. You are never going to get custody of -daughter-. -Wife- can find her a man that will move into this house and be -daughters- father. You are going to lose everything.
3. She wanted to beat the snot out of me and gladly spend 24 hours in jail for it.
4. You do this, this, this and this wrong. Your family is a piece of ****. They don't love you. you don't know what love is.
5. She will spend everything she has so I do not get to see my child.
6. this goes on and on.
I learned:
1. Wife tells her mom about every single thing that I did not do right by her standards.
2. Wife fits all 10 signs of an emotional bully per Dr Tara.
3. Wife repeated lied and distorted the truth about what type of person I am to her family.
4. Wife and her family have spoken ill about me to all our friends.
Wife has not shown love in 6 years. Sleeps in daughters room for last 5 years, no kissing, no love, she always is with her mom. Always on phone with facebook, games, texting. Wife is married to her mom, dad, brother, nephew and I am a distant 6th in the pecking order. She has spent 3+ hours with her mom in 26 of last 29 days. How can you have a marriage when you dont spend anytime with your spouse?
I am the only one that plays with daughter. Goes on rides at fairs, goes swimming, does art, does wii, plays with dolls, etc. Does that make me a bad father?
Sorry this got a little long and off subject. Just so confused by it all. Too much **** to deal with.
Then -wife- has to guts to ask me why I am not going with her to her parents house so I can swim with our daughter.
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