I've been married for 10 years. My husband had several years of depression and anxiety because he couldn't stop worrying about his work. He sought counseling and is now much happier. The catch is, one of his tools is to leave work at work. That means, he won't discuss it. Ever. Unless he's drunk.
Problem is that i feel disconnected from that entire part of his life. Carreer is very important to me. It's always been important to us. Connecting with my husband over career is a bonding experience for me.
Unfortunately, hubby won't talk about anything that happens between 8-6 every day. Nothing. He listens to me, but gives nothing back and i am growing apart from him over it. It sounds silly, but every time i say "how was your day?" i get a brick wall. I miss him. I miss bonding with him over career.
I tell him that I want to communicate more and i get "we communicate fine. can we talk about this later?"
I fear that this could be the beginning of end and I don't know what to do.
Problem is that i feel disconnected from that entire part of his life. Carreer is very important to me. It's always been important to us. Connecting with my husband over career is a bonding experience for me.
Unfortunately, hubby won't talk about anything that happens between 8-6 every day. Nothing. He listens to me, but gives nothing back and i am growing apart from him over it. It sounds silly, but every time i say "how was your day?" i get a brick wall. I miss him. I miss bonding with him over career.
I tell him that I want to communicate more and i get "we communicate fine. can we talk about this later?"
I fear that this could be the beginning of end and I don't know what to do.
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