Let me tell you my story as I need to hear your opinion.
Me and my wife got married 4 years ago after a love story, and everything was just perfect. From early days of our marriage we discovered I have PE -premature ejaculation - (around 30 sec after penetration).
My wife always said she doesn't have any issues and that she is happy with me. I always managed to use my tongue to make her close to orgasm then penetrate so we both can come. This worked for around 70% of the times.
Also sometimes she would come before me and if I last a bit longer she asked me to stop as she is feeling tired and pain as well.
Sometimes she wouldn't come, I used to apologize and offer to look for a doctor for treatment but she always insisted she isn't sad and refuses that I go to a doctor.
I used to push a bit to have sex as most men do. We lived happily and had a kid after 2 years.
After 4 years, she changed dramatically and she told me she feels she doesn't love me anymore. We tried to sort it out she told me she is confused and cannot determine what she really wants, and she is thinking about divorce.
She also stopped sex completely and asked me not to touch her. I went to a doctor to look for a treatment and when I returned home asking her if we can start making love as part of the treatment and to evaluate it. she completely refused and after some talk she told me she thinks she never enjoyed sex with me, when I asked her why did she hide it so long she told me that she wasn't honest with herself, and that she discovered this fact lately.
I asked her to give it a try since I should be cures but she completely refuses, in addition she told me some stories that did hurt her like hearing stories from her girlfriends about how sex is enjoyable and that a friend used to come 3 times which made her jealous.
She is not sure if sex was the reason she started to fall out of love, but it may be one of the reasons.
I am broken, no words can describe how I feel. When I asked to be cured she told me no need, when I went to a doctor she told me I don't want it anymore.
Can this be just temporary because she is feeling bad? Can things return to normal? Or did I hurt her and nothing can solve it.
BTW she is not sure of her feelings she is so confused. She just feel she lost appetite to sex forever and she does know if this is due to bad sex or just due to not loving me anymore. She doesn't accept me to touch her parts even if without making love. However she treats me with respect but she feels she loves me like a brother.
I need your thoughts, I am so down.
Me and my wife got married 4 years ago after a love story, and everything was just perfect. From early days of our marriage we discovered I have PE -premature ejaculation - (around 30 sec after penetration).
My wife always said she doesn't have any issues and that she is happy with me. I always managed to use my tongue to make her close to orgasm then penetrate so we both can come. This worked for around 70% of the times.
Also sometimes she would come before me and if I last a bit longer she asked me to stop as she is feeling tired and pain as well.
Sometimes she wouldn't come, I used to apologize and offer to look for a doctor for treatment but she always insisted she isn't sad and refuses that I go to a doctor.
I used to push a bit to have sex as most men do. We lived happily and had a kid after 2 years.
After 4 years, she changed dramatically and she told me she feels she doesn't love me anymore. We tried to sort it out she told me she is confused and cannot determine what she really wants, and she is thinking about divorce.
She also stopped sex completely and asked me not to touch her. I went to a doctor to look for a treatment and when I returned home asking her if we can start making love as part of the treatment and to evaluate it. she completely refused and after some talk she told me she thinks she never enjoyed sex with me, when I asked her why did she hide it so long she told me that she wasn't honest with herself, and that she discovered this fact lately.
I asked her to give it a try since I should be cures but she completely refuses, in addition she told me some stories that did hurt her like hearing stories from her girlfriends about how sex is enjoyable and that a friend used to come 3 times which made her jealous.
She is not sure if sex was the reason she started to fall out of love, but it may be one of the reasons.
I am broken, no words can describe how I feel. When I asked to be cured she told me no need, when I went to a doctor she told me I don't want it anymore.
Can this be just temporary because she is feeling bad? Can things return to normal? Or did I hurt her and nothing can solve it.
BTW she is not sure of her feelings she is so confused. She just feel she lost appetite to sex forever and she does know if this is due to bad sex or just due to not loving me anymore. She doesn't accept me to touch her parts even if without making love. However she treats me with respect but she feels she loves me like a brother.
I need your thoughts, I am so down.
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