Basically, this is gonna be really cringey but i don't have the courage to talk to a friend about this!
Basically, there's this girl who i really like, but we don't know eachother! I like her for all the 'right' reasons such as her personality and what she is like as a person.
We have a mutual friend who often retweets her tweets on twitter and she seems like a really kind and caring person and the type of person i can imagine myself being with and the type of person i feel i need in my life! I also feel we seem well matched because some of the stuff i've seen her write on twitter have been about really wanting to have long chats with someone and be able to talk deeply to them etc...which is how i also feel at times! Trouble is, the mutual friend is somebody who i don't even know well but we know of eachother through our siblings knowing eachother vaguely and they are often doing events together. So i have no way of starting to talk to her as far as i'm aware. We know eachothers names etc as my parents know her mum as they've said to me before "Do you know this person because we were talking with her and her mum in town" etc.
My friends describe me as an unconfident person which is true. I don't know how to start friendships/conversations with the opposite sex as i've never really had a 'proper' relationship before. There is 1 other mutual friend who i think knows her quite well but despite us being really good mates and him being really nice, i don't know if he's the right person for this type of thing, if you know what i mean?! Although, he's still at school with her in the same year (11), im first year of college so equivalent of year 12 so we're not even at the same school anymore! It feels like everything is working against me!
So I was wondering what i should do, how i know if she is interested in me, should i add her on facebook/twitter and what should i say etc or should i just give up?! I would also worry though if i added her on facebook and/or twitter she would find it creepy?!Thanks for any help but just needed to get it off my chest really and hopefully get an answer!
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