I will try to keep this short. Married young and stuck my head in the sand years ago when there were obvious red flags. He would sneak out after we had gone to bed and be out all night. When I say all night, I mean all night. It would be dawn of the next morning. His explanation was he could not sleep so he went for a drive. He would sometimes return with flowers and a card as say that he had been at the store reading greeting cards for hours. I never accused him or questioned his story. I've found chat line phone numbers in our phone records. When I asked him about it he would say it was not him. His friends used his phone to call the chat lines. Had an ex girlfriend sending letter to our house with hearts and flowers. Found MoneyGram receipts where he sent her money.
Recently, found my husband having conversations with multiple women. Said he talked to them for relationship advice. I called out one female by name so he stopped talking to her and said he was committed to getting our relationship back on track. I found that he continued to have lengthy conversations with another ex girlfriend. She was making plans to come to our city to see him. He was sending her money via MoneyGram. I confronted him and he said he does not handle confrontation well and I assume this was his reasoning for not ending their relationship. I made a FB post that brought their game to an end. I consider this behavior to be cheating. He claims he has done nothing wrong and has not cheated on me. I know that if the shoe was on the other foot he would be furious. I removed my wedding ring at this time. He has led our family to the brink of financial ruin by renting and apartment and obtaining utilities for one of his family members. Both were defaulted on and my h usband has court orders against him for the money due. Pawned my wedding rings for cash to pay his car note.
I have always been at home taking care of our family. I have not always been fulfilled by this relationship but never looked outside. Begged my husband to do things together, a picnic in the park, fee days at the zoo and museums. His excuse is "I work". I work as well but tried to put in time to refresh this relationship. I am at a point now where I just don't care. Advice? Comments?
Recently, found my husband having conversations with multiple women. Said he talked to them for relationship advice. I called out one female by name so he stopped talking to her and said he was committed to getting our relationship back on track. I found that he continued to have lengthy conversations with another ex girlfriend. She was making plans to come to our city to see him. He was sending her money via MoneyGram. I confronted him and he said he does not handle confrontation well and I assume this was his reasoning for not ending their relationship. I made a FB post that brought their game to an end. I consider this behavior to be cheating. He claims he has done nothing wrong and has not cheated on me. I know that if the shoe was on the other foot he would be furious. I removed my wedding ring at this time. He has led our family to the brink of financial ruin by renting and apartment and obtaining utilities for one of his family members. Both were defaulted on and my h usband has court orders against him for the money due. Pawned my wedding rings for cash to pay his car note.
I have always been at home taking care of our family. I have not always been fulfilled by this relationship but never looked outside. Begged my husband to do things together, a picnic in the park, fee days at the zoo and museums. His excuse is "I work". I work as well but tried to put in time to refresh this relationship. I am at a point now where I just don't care. Advice? Comments?
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