Hi everyone, I'm new here, I've been reading and commenting on various things I've seen here and decided to tell my own story. My husband and I have been married almost 9 years (June will be 9) I am 33 (next week is my 33rd bday) and he is 30 (he'll be 31 in 2 weeks). We got married very quickly. It was one of those "you just know" feelings with him and everything was great for the first couple years. Then we moved to his hometown and everything went to crap. To make a long story super short (if you want to know specifics or details, just ask me), the first time, he made plans to sleep with a coworker but backed out at the last minute (before I found out), the 2nd time was an online affair complete with Skype video chats and nude chats as well, the 3rd time was him perusing Craigslist "looking for real women to send him pictures" as well as a woman on Snapchat that he was emailing with an alternate email. This last time was with a woman he works wit h again, she sent him semi-nude pictures, they flirted at work, through texting etc., even after I found out. Also, on top of those, his "best friend" when we first moved up here was a girl, he spent so much time with her that I felt neglected. When I mentioned this, he started deleting conversations with her too.
He has said each time "It won't happen again, I love you" etc. etc. etc. I don't know what to believe anymore. We have 2 kids, the oldest isn't his biologically but has been raised by him and the youngest is his. I'm not ready to leave him at this point because I don't have a job nor any money saved up to go and I honestly am still madly in love with him.
I'm terrified its going to happen again. Is there anyone out there in my position that can give me any comfort that it gets better? Like the title says, he's never physically touched any of them women he's flirted with, so I don't know what to do.
He has said each time "It won't happen again, I love you" etc. etc. etc. I don't know what to believe anymore. We have 2 kids, the oldest isn't his biologically but has been raised by him and the youngest is his. I'm not ready to leave him at this point because I don't have a job nor any money saved up to go and I honestly am still madly in love with him.
I'm terrified its going to happen again. Is there anyone out there in my position that can give me any comfort that it gets better? Like the title says, he's never physically touched any of them women he's flirted with, so I don't know what to do.
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