I am new here so here is some back ground. I had an A three years ago. D day just past again and she still says that she is too angry to talk about it. She has never gone to IC but I have spent the 2 years learning about my feelings in IC. She won't go to MC with me. In the last 3 years my wife has grown increasingly distant. She is a stay at home mom and does nothing but surf the internet all the time. She will comment on people's threads all day but will not talk to me, go out with me, take a walk, go shopping with me or play with our children.
I have asked her to talk to me and she says that I just need to talk to my therapist. I work a job that requires a lot of hours and a lot of nights. When I come home she does not even look up from her tablet. Often I end up feeding the kids, which is fine, but I can't help feel that the kids would not get fed if I I didn't come home.
I have spent the last 3 years trying to prove to her that I love her and we can work it out. Rather than trying with me she drinks alcohol
The other day she was drunk and slipped up by saying " When you remarry someone you need to be careful when you introduce that person to the kids. " When I asked her if she was going to divorce me she said " I don't know, maybe". We have no sex life and she refuses to just be intimate in any way. I am at loss for things to do to help my marriage. I am at her beck and call, I go out of my way to make sure she gets what ever she wants. I feel like am an errand boy who brings home a pay check. Need some advice.
I have asked her to talk to me and she says that I just need to talk to my therapist. I work a job that requires a lot of hours and a lot of nights. When I come home she does not even look up from her tablet. Often I end up feeding the kids, which is fine, but I can't help feel that the kids would not get fed if I I didn't come home.
I have spent the last 3 years trying to prove to her that I love her and we can work it out. Rather than trying with me she drinks alcohol
The other day she was drunk and slipped up by saying " When you remarry someone you need to be careful when you introduce that person to the kids. " When I asked her if she was going to divorce me she said " I don't know, maybe". We have no sex life and she refuses to just be intimate in any way. I am at loss for things to do to help my marriage. I am at her beck and call, I go out of my way to make sure she gets what ever she wants. I feel like am an errand boy who brings home a pay check. Need some advice.
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