I've been married 27 years, and with my wife for 29.
My wife is 10 yrs older than I am and I've just hit 52.
We have always had a decent Sex life, I'm a bit more HD than she, but unless times are really stressful for other reasons we have always had sex at least several times a week.
She is at least 15 years post menopause and she now has lubrication and arousal issues. She uses an es cream that was prescribed by her obgyn, and it helps with the lubrication, but she never gets there anymore. Its also not on her radar, I need to remind her to use the cream or it never happens. In times past oral sex always got her there even if other things might not, now that does not even work. She will gladly have sex with me and she says she enjoys the intimacy, but in a lot of ways it feels like having sex with a rubber doll, she does not get there and often it ends with "I'm getting sore" can you hurry up.
I miss having sex with a women that's into having sex.
The whole situation has me bummed out.
I don't even feel like I can really talk to her about it because she will internalize it into her own self worth issues.
My wife is 10 yrs older than I am and I've just hit 52.
We have always had a decent Sex life, I'm a bit more HD than she, but unless times are really stressful for other reasons we have always had sex at least several times a week.
She is at least 15 years post menopause and she now has lubrication and arousal issues. She uses an es cream that was prescribed by her obgyn, and it helps with the lubrication, but she never gets there anymore. Its also not on her radar, I need to remind her to use the cream or it never happens. In times past oral sex always got her there even if other things might not, now that does not even work. She will gladly have sex with me and she says she enjoys the intimacy, but in a lot of ways it feels like having sex with a rubber doll, she does not get there and often it ends with "I'm getting sore" can you hurry up.
I miss having sex with a women that's into having sex.
The whole situation has me bummed out.
I don't even feel like I can really talk to her about it because she will internalize it into her own self worth issues.
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