I have been made aware my niece is cheating on her husband. I saw all the red flags and tried to subtly gain his attention in the matter. I gave him MMSLP to read and told him this could help save you. Of course it went unread. Well seems she had been doing the usual GNO with several toxic friends She would regularly emasculate him publicly and in front of their 4 boys
This poor ba$tard works 60 to 65 hours per week at his first job. And on every weekend works another 8 to 10 hours on Sat $ Sunday Yes folks that's seven days a week. She naturally is a SAHM.
I am having difficulty getting him to expose to all but he is slowly doing that went to BB with him and got him to put WL favorite toy under her car seat last night. (Got the lithium's WL)
He has pulled all his money and changed his direct deposit to a separate account. He will pay the bills when due and provide for his family but removing all disposable income from her She does not work and rallies solely on his income.
I have posted this on Facebook for all to see
To all that are dear to me
I have recently have been told a close person in my circle of friends has become the victim of betrayal. This came at the hands of the one person in the world that should protect his heart, mind and body more that anyone on the planet, his wife and the mother of his children. She has committed the horrible ugly act of adultery. Betraying her husband children and extended family all which will be touched in one way or another by this selfish senseless act.
He is being treated with unspeakable cruelty and disrespect. Carrying on her affair right in front of his eyes as it has now come to light. She is acting as an entitled petulant selfish teenager. She regularly parties till late hours on school nights. This has been a common occurrence for quite some time. She is spending the family to oblivion as her endangering the future of all that are closest to her. Her husband works countless hours 7 days a week doing all he can to provide for his family.
For that he gets to lose everything
I guess that saying is true "Give a woman the world, and she will despise you for it"
If this situation ever comes into your life, please do all you can to support the betrayed spouse and children. Encourage the wayward spouse to stop these acts of madness against their family. Discourage them from being influenced by toxic friends and surroundings. To return to the marriage and commit reconciliation to secure the future or if not possible, end the affair and treat the betrayed spouse with the dignity he and the marriage deserves. Give an uncontested divorce. Be forthcoming with the truth. Allow for a 50/50 custody with all the rights a father deserves. So the he may co parent with the ability to live his life and move on and be the best man and father he can be. And his best revenge is to live a good happy life with someone that will love and respect and treat him well but most importantly be faithful to him.
If we sit back all we are is enabler's. If we love the people in our lives and remain uninvolved, we are complicit in the destruction of the lives involved, and the future of the children.
BTW…….. Children are not as resilient as we think. The likelihood of their children to reach their full potential and realize all their dreams is remote at best. Their ability to further their education will be significantly diminished.
With everything in me I hope and wish for a positive outcome. I will support his wife in all her efforts to repair this tragic event. I judge no one. I encourage her to be fully remorseful and tend to the pain she has caused her husband. So that one day he can attend to hers.
So very hard to witness as I love them all
and the phone just started ringing off the Hook
55
.
This poor ba$tard works 60 to 65 hours per week at his first job. And on every weekend works another 8 to 10 hours on Sat $ Sunday Yes folks that's seven days a week. She naturally is a SAHM.
I am having difficulty getting him to expose to all but he is slowly doing that went to BB with him and got him to put WL favorite toy under her car seat last night. (Got the lithium's WL)
He has pulled all his money and changed his direct deposit to a separate account. He will pay the bills when due and provide for his family but removing all disposable income from her She does not work and rallies solely on his income.
I have posted this on Facebook for all to see
To all that are dear to me
I have recently have been told a close person in my circle of friends has become the victim of betrayal. This came at the hands of the one person in the world that should protect his heart, mind and body more that anyone on the planet, his wife and the mother of his children. She has committed the horrible ugly act of adultery. Betraying her husband children and extended family all which will be touched in one way or another by this selfish senseless act.
He is being treated with unspeakable cruelty and disrespect. Carrying on her affair right in front of his eyes as it has now come to light. She is acting as an entitled petulant selfish teenager. She regularly parties till late hours on school nights. This has been a common occurrence for quite some time. She is spending the family to oblivion as her endangering the future of all that are closest to her. Her husband works countless hours 7 days a week doing all he can to provide for his family.
For that he gets to lose everything
I guess that saying is true "Give a woman the world, and she will despise you for it"
If this situation ever comes into your life, please do all you can to support the betrayed spouse and children. Encourage the wayward spouse to stop these acts of madness against their family. Discourage them from being influenced by toxic friends and surroundings. To return to the marriage and commit reconciliation to secure the future or if not possible, end the affair and treat the betrayed spouse with the dignity he and the marriage deserves. Give an uncontested divorce. Be forthcoming with the truth. Allow for a 50/50 custody with all the rights a father deserves. So the he may co parent with the ability to live his life and move on and be the best man and father he can be. And his best revenge is to live a good happy life with someone that will love and respect and treat him well but most importantly be faithful to him.
If we sit back all we are is enabler's. If we love the people in our lives and remain uninvolved, we are complicit in the destruction of the lives involved, and the future of the children.
BTW…….. Children are not as resilient as we think. The likelihood of their children to reach their full potential and realize all their dreams is remote at best. Their ability to further their education will be significantly diminished.
With everything in me I hope and wish for a positive outcome. I will support his wife in all her efforts to repair this tragic event. I judge no one. I encourage her to be fully remorseful and tend to the pain she has caused her husband. So that one day he can attend to hers.
So very hard to witness as I love them all
and the phone just started ringing off the Hook
55
.
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